Queff? Quiff? During certain positions?

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Queff? Quiff? During certain positions?
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 5:38pm

I don't know how to spell that, but in certain positions I have "vagina farts" it is so embarassing. I am guessing this is due to having my daughter, I didnt have this before.

Is there a way to stop it? It isn't all the time, I have ben wa balls but have yet to try them, do you think those will help? My DH loves to do doggy style (thus the post about anal as well) and this is one position that I "sound" on. Please help!

Does this happen to anyone else?

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 7:20pm
Hi and welcome fiesty... Sure, that has happened many times and I have no children. It's a mixture of air and body fluids. It's really no big deal. We would just laugh it off.


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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 7:27pm
I must say that I do have the same problem, so maybe it is really common. I get the same way, like my face is turning red. I hate when it happens. I knew it had something to do with the air and fluids. Just not a pretty sound.
I do have to ask, what is the ben wa balls and what do they do?

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 7:58pm
My current gf is really really tiny and queefs a lot. I think it's from me ramming air in there. She is very flexible and for maximum penetration she will often pull her thighs right up to her chest. If I pull all the way out before going back in -- which I guess I'm in the habit of doing -- it forces air in there. You can actually feel her getting full of air, as you have only intermittent contact with the vagina walls -- it feels tight at the opening but other than that very loose. Then it's a sure thing a queef is coming. She only gets them in that extreme missionary position though. The only thing that grosses me out is if you have just filled it up with cum, it makes an absolutely horrible sound.
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 8:41pm
I find if I arch my back in doggy a certain way it prevents this. It used to happen a lot, but not as often anymore. Maybe you can experiment with that.

 

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:22pm
Thank you all for your reply's, I am glad to know it isn't just me!
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 11:23pm
They help you to do Kegel all day long, they are weighed balls to strenghten your kegel muscles. I was told they would be great for enhanced sensations, and better control of your muscles.
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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 12:35am

I doubt if there's a woman alive (that is sexually active) that it hasn't happened to at least occasionally.

And you nailed the reason....it's the position. Ben-wa's and kegels won't help it, either. Maybe someone who's a body builder, and has abs of steel can escape it, but the rest of us do it....and don't let it bother us.

Here's a simple "anatomy" lesson on why it happens. Your "insides" are not locked in place. Everything is attached to muscles and tendons. Your uterus, which is attached to your cervix......is at the top of your vagina. Particularly after a pregnancy or two, but sometimes even before, the muscles and tendons are flexible and stretchable. When you put your body in a position where your pelvis is higher than your trunk.....as in doggie style or missionary with the legs high....everything inside you shifts upwards....pulling the top of the vagina with it. Then, when you come back to a normal postion, trunk higher than pelvis......everything shifts back down again. The vagina is like a balloon.....open only on the bottom. When things shift upwards, air is pulled in...when it comes back down....the air is pushed back out. There's no place else for it to go.

It shouldn't be embarassing....most people either ignore it or laugh about it. There's not much you can do about it.

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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 1:30pm

It happens to me sometimes when we are doing it doggy style. We just laugh it off...

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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 5:28pm
thank you, I feel so much better! Glad I found this board!
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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 7:24pm
Ya, this has happened to me too. Like all the other posts said...its the position and I doubt theres much you can do to eliminate it completely. I know when it happens to me the BF and I either laugh it off as normal bodily stuff or we ignore it altogether. Its just air....
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