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Female Ejaculation
| Tue, 09-04-2007 - 7:47am |
I am not an alien to orgasms. Have a couple of tem during each session. I also feel a sudden surge of wetness from inside of me during some of these O's. Is this female ejaculation? I have heard stories of women coming out in the form of jets (like peeing). Was that the real FE? Somebody please clarify.
Moreover, how can one achieve the jet like ejaculation?

The wetness that you feel or leak from within your vagina is not female ejaculate. Female ejaculate comes from a gland (similar to a prostate gland) located between the vagina and the urethra. To find it, insert a finger about 2" inside of the vagina. You should feel a hardness (bonelike) and a depression just after that where you can actually hook your finger. With your finger pointed up toward the navel, move it in a 'come hither' motion. This will rub the gland, and the gland should swell.
Usually combined with this stimulation, the sensation to pee will become noticeable. While it's not pee, it does come out of the urethra. Women are conditioned to pull their muscles upward and hold this sensation (until on a toilet), so it also takes some mind conditioning to 'let go'. Relaxation is important, and pushing outward helps to let go the first time. There is usually a lot of fluid, and the fluid is thinner as it doesn't have any kind of mucous in it. Using something to protect the bedding is a wise choice. Once familiar with the sensation, having a g-spot orgasm and FE becomes easier and easier.
You can also learn more about the g-spot and FE at www.the-clitoris.com or on Wikipedia by searching g-spot.
Good luck, and let us know how things are going.
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You may have heard "stories" about women "squirting"......but I think that's what they are, "stories". I'm an ejaculator, and it doesn't "squirt" anywhere...it just pours out. Usually, the partner is "busy" at the area, and there's nowhere for it to "jet" anyway!
As Misty pointed out, if it's coming from your vagina, then it's not FE. It's probably just a lot of natural lubrication.
How can you "make it happen"? You can't. Anymore than you can "make" an orgasm happen. It's something that you do, sometimes unexpectedly, and just like orgasms, the more you think about them and/or worry about them, the less likely they are to happen. And also just like orgasms, once you've started doing it, you really have no control over when or how it will happen. In my case, it happens all the time (and truth be known, I wouldn't miss them as much as my partner does, it makes a MESS of the bed, and necessitates a complete change of linens every time!).
Good luck... and put down alot of towels, or in my case a sheet protecter (pad)!