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| Tue, 09-04-2007 - 10:45am |
Mutual Masturbation, who's doing it? Tell us who initiates it?
- We do fairly often. Who initiates?
- We do sometimes. Who initiates?
- We have rarely. Who initiates?
- We never have.
- Other, please explain.
You will be able to change your vote.


I was torn between "fairly" often and "sometimes". Since we resort to mutual MB'tion 1-2 times during my period each month I just wasn't sure but I selected "sometimes".
I ( the wife )initiated this in our relationship during it's early stages because it was the only way I was going to orgasm for 1 thing, and it was the only way to instruct DH on how and where I like being touched ( he didn't like it either, he said it made him feel like a failure. ) Once he learned what to do for me, it wasn't necessary to MB myself to orgasm during LM'ing sessions anymore.
It's actually my goal to masturbate in front of/for DH this month! (You can set a goal to by visiting the September Roll Call thread.) I'm not sure why your hubby won't do it with you, but I know for me, it's just something I have always kept more private. While I'm totally comfortable with hubby, and we talk about masturbation, I've just never really thought about doing it in front of him. Of course, visiting these boards, lots of new things I didn't think of have come up! Although this is on DHs wish list (for me to do), I've noticed that he's not too open about doing it in front of me either.
Maybe your DH just doesn't feel comfortable. How does he feel about you doing it in front of him? I know most guys love to watch, so maybe if you keep doing it in front of him, he'll get more comfortable about doing it together. What a wonderful goal you could set for this month!
Keep us posted....