This has me puzzled!

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Registered: 05-20-2007
This has me puzzled!
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 8:28pm

I was having a conversation with my girlfriends a few weeks ago and one mentioned that she had sex/intercourse 8 times in one session lasting about 3 hours. Today I read on the board someone saying they had intercourse 3 times amongst other sex acts in 35 minutes.

My question is; If someone asks how many times did you have sex; do you include all sex acts like HJ, BJ, 69. Do you consider it a “time” every time he inserts it in?

My notion of a “time” is at least to completion/ejaculation for the male. Correct me if I am wrong, is it not physically impossible for a man to ejaculate 8 times in 3 hours, or 3 times in 35 minutes?

What are your thoughts on “times”?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 11:40pm
When I think about how many times, I think about completion. Sometimes completion doesn't include him ejaculating, but there is clearly an ending. I know hubby can last longer now than he ever could before. Sometimes we have vigorous doggy style sex and he just literally drops to the bed after a while (like 15 minutes or so). He needs a break. I don't count that as done ;-) But if we have sex and stop, take a break, change positions and start snuggling -- basically no clear intention to continue, then that's a "time". We actually do that a lot. We'll have sex, I'll clean up and all, we'll say goodnight and start to snuggle. Then it's like, well, maybe we weren't done, and we start anew.


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 12:08am

I think that the definition would vary from person to person. Myself, I'd consider "to ejeculation" as the definitive version but I could easily see people talking about having intercourse, taking a break and then having more intercourse with the guy only ejeculating once at the end of the session. There have been times when my partner and I will have intercourse and stop (either she's had an orgasm or we need a rest), we take a break, and then build up to another round of intercourse. My erection may or may not have subsided during the break but I definitely haven't orgasmed.

Mind you, there are certainly young guys out there than can cum two or three or more times in a session.

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 1:35am
That’s probably close to what I consider a “time” too.
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Registered: 09-03-2007
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 2:47am
Well for me the "time" is over one we both have had our fill and now intend to sleep. Somehow after some time we end yp having IC again. One time also includes one IC at least. Whether he ejaculates or not is not part of one session for me. However, he does lose erection a bit at the end of each session. So in 4 or 5 times sex that we have had lat weekend, his ejaculation was 3 times.
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Registered: 02-13-2006
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 9:01am
this is very interesting. First of all your girlfriend must have been so sore afterwards! Plus It is possible for a guy to have sex for that long but he will shoot blanks. As far as times go, i think it includes the fore-play to the time the guy/girl reaches orgasim/cumming.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 09-07-2007 - 1:16pm
Some men can orgasm without ejactulating. I know my SO can. We can make love literally for hours. But since we are both 49 we do tend to take breaks because the physical activity will wear us out in 30-45 minutes but he will orgasm 2-3 times in each session but he can go on and on and on all night if we are both rested enough. I take care when we do that that I don't dry out, otherwise I will end up sore! But it sure is fun hehe.