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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 11:41pm

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Fri, 09-07-2007 - 11:43pm

Okay sexyprgirl, here are some questions to get you started. Hope you have fun with your thread!



How old are your kids?



Have they ever caught you and DH fooling around or having sex?



Were your parents comfortable discussing sex with you as a child?



Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?



Where’s the most risqué place you have ever had sex? Who was your partner?



How did you have your very first orgasm ever?



If you’re eating popcorn, what’s more important -- salt or butter?



Have you ever seen or been affected by a tornado?



Outside of being a mom and a wife, do you have a job that pays money for you to work at home?



What did you think you wanted to be when you grew up?



What sexual act are you least likely to ever try?



If you could be a guest on a game show, which one would you want to be on?



If you were sent to a desert island with hubby, 2 studly guys and a bottle of gin, what would you want to do once you got there?





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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 12:03am

Hey Sexyprgirl


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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 12:12am

How old are your kids? 14yo DS, 8yo DD

Have they ever caught you and DH fooling around or having sex? Nope... we are careful about keeping doors closed. Our DD would probably be traumatized for life if she ever caught us.

Were your parents comfortable discussing sex with you as a child? Not at all. The only thing they ever said is "don't do it!". My Dad went that extra step by saying "if you do before you are married I will not go to your wedding."... guess what he didn't know didn't hurt him.

Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? I love giving as much as receiving. I love seeing how much DH enjoys it when he is on the receiving end & he is sooooo good at giving.

Where’s the most risqué place you have ever had sex? Who was your partner? Stairwell at college during classes.. My partner was my BF who happens to be my DH... We've been together 20yrs..

How did you have your very first orgasm ever? DH fingered me in a classroom at college. Yes, we did make good use of school besides actually learning some stuff we paid tuition for..LOL

If you’re eating popcorn, what’s more important -- salt or butter? butter

Have you ever seen or been affected by a tornado? Have not seen one in person but have seen the damage after the fact. Scariest thing in my life to hear there was one near my parents house & not being able to get a hold of them until they showed up at my front door the next day. The area was just decimated & so many lives lost. They were lucky that it skipped across the street before it got to them. Funny thing it wasn't here in "tornado alley" it was in FL.

Outside of being a mom and a wife, do you have a job that pays money for you to work at home? Yes, I am an independent contractor working from home reviewing third party verification calls & I do quality assurance

What did you think you wanted to be when you grew up? I can't even remember because as kids we change our minds every second. At one point in college I majored in accounting but that didn't move me.

What sexual act are you least likely to ever try? bringing someone else into our bedroom. Other than that I would try most of anything at least once.

If you could be a guest on a game show, which one would you want to be on? None really. I am not into game shows.

If you were sent to a desert island with hubby, 2 studly guys and a bottle of gin, what would you want to do once you got there? Get drunk, and go at it with all three at once...

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 12:20am

1-What CD is in your radio right now? Activando by KMW (Reggaeton)

2-Do you have animals? No

3-If your hubby were going to cum on your body somewhere, where would you want it to be? My chest

4-Do you match your panties and bras? not really

5-What is the last thing you cooked? ropa vieja (shredded flank steak) w/white rice

6-What kind of car do you have? 2005 Toyota Corolla LE

7-How long have you been married? 16yrs

8-How often do you & hubby have sex in the A.M. before work? Rarely...It's usually at night after I'm done working

9-Did you go to your prom? Any fun stories about it? Yes, not really. It was an all girl's Catholic HS so not too much went on there.

10-Describe your prom dress. 80's..LOL.. Too much lace & satin (light blue satin cocktail length w/white lace overlay, off the shoulders, light blue satin sash at the waist). I shudder at the thought now...LOL

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 12:29pm

"Were your parents comfortable discussing sex with you as a child? Not at all. The only thing they ever said is "don't do it!". My Dad went that extra step by saying "if you do before you are married I will not go to your wedding."... guess what he didn't know didn't hurt him."

I heard Ian Kerner on a talk show recently. He was quoting a study that had been done, and I'll admit I don't remember all the details. The main point is that they did studies back into the 40s and discovered that an astronomical number of people were not virgins when they married (like 95+%). He summed up his point by saying something like 'so that means NOBODY in this studio audience was a virgin when they married'. I was a bit shocked because there was NO rumble! No one arguing with him, no one acting like they had just been insulted beyond belief.

I always felt like my own parents raised me in a large part by using scare tactics. Certainly sounds like what your dad was doing. I think about it now and wonder if the real intent was "don't get caught if you do".

Do you have an opinion on that?

If you honestly thought about your parents relationship, the amount of time they dated, how they met, number of BF/GFs they had before each other, their ages when they married, etc., do you feel 100% certain that they were virgins when they married?



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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 12:50pm

Ok I have a few more---


1-Are you still Catholic?


2-Have you always live in kansas?


3-Where is the coolest place you've ever been?


4-If you got $1000 and you could only spend it in 1 store....where would you want to spend it at?


5-Did you know we have the same birthday?


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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 5:14pm

My Dad used scare tactics for everything he didn't want us to do. Me being the oldest I was a little more intimidated by him than my siblings. I honestly think he meant that I better not do it. To this day, I have been married 16yrs & he still doesn't know the truth. He would wig out. He's the type of person who is big on trust. If he knows you have lied to him he beats the topic until it can't be beat anymore & it's just not worth having to listen to that over & over again. He was definitely born in the wrong era. My Mom was always the quiet type. Didn't say much about anything. If my Dad said it was a certain way she would follow whatever he said. She was 20 when they got married & he was 25. I assume he had been with others though don't know for a fact nor how many. Mom I think was a virgin. Her Dad was horrendous in that they couldn't really go out on dates. When my Dad would go to her house to see her they sat on opposite ends of the couch. It was that bad. I think it's just ridiculous to try to raise your kids that way. The way I look at it having a teenage son is I would prefer that he wait until he is better prepared for what comes with being intimate with someone but I can't go around with blinkers on thinking that's how it will play out. They just have to be educated on how to protect themselves & just hope they make the right decisions. I could have lost my virginity a lot younger than 19yrs but I was a big more selective than a lot of girls I grew up with. I waited & eventually lost it to my hubby when we were dating. I'm glad I did it when I did and don't regret any of it in the least..

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 5:19pm

1-Are you still Catholic? Yes, even though I'm not a practicing Catholic.

2-Have you always live in kansas? No, I'm actually a NYer. I was born in Puerto Rico but raised in NYC from infancy (1mo old). I moved to FL after my son was born & my hubby's employer transferred us to KS 4 yrs later. We've been out here almost 10yrs.

3-Where is the coolest place you've ever been? I haven't really traveled much. NYC is the coolest place I've ever been having lived there all my life basically.. other than that probably St. Maarten where we went for our honeymoon.

4-If you got $1000 and you could only spend it in 1 store....where would you want to spend it at? Bed, Bath and Beyond!

5-Did you know we have the same birthday? Do we really? I being extremely biased believe it's the best day to be born..LOL. It's spring & it's always beautiful that time of year...

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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 5:37pm
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Edited 9/11/2007 7:26 pm ET by luvnitagain
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Sat, 09-08-2007 - 5:54pm

You hit the nail on the head "ignorance is bliss" to them I think. My sister is the rebel & she moved in with her boyfriend & she told my Dad. I think he just gave up the fight because she is his twin. He knows he would get nowhere arguing with her. LOL

Do you ever wonder what it would have been like to have other partners? Of course you wonder but I have to say my DH has always and still is a very loving, patient & oh so skilled lover that I don't feel that I've missed out on anything just having been with him. We are always trying new things to keep things hot & we talk a lot & most of all laugh a lot.

What do you tell your DS about having premarital sex? My hubby took over that role. My DS is not very comfortable talking to me about girls in general. He talks to his dad about that kind of stuff. My DH always talks to him when they go out and him being one that lost his virginity at 14 can relate to his age at this time.

Will you tell your daughter the same thing? My daughter is kinda young but we've gone over the changing bodies thing and that's about all she wants to hear. I will tell her that I would prefer she wait until she's older, not because I think it's wrong but because at a younger age I feel it's easier to get pressured into doing things you aren't ready for. When you are a bit older there is a thought process you go through instead of just doing it because everyone else is. I will tell her about protecting herself and hope she uses all the information she has received to make sound decisions for herself & not just jump into bed with the first guy that sweet talks her.

Would you make BC available to them? Definitely.

Would you tell them when you first had sex? If they ask I wouldn't hesitate to tell them. It would all depend on if they were comfortable with that.

How would you feel/react if they told you they were sexually active? If my son were to tell me today that he's been sexually active I think the intial reaction would be that I might get upset (not show him that) just because I do think he is still too young. On the other hand I would be glad that he had enough trust in me to open up to me about it. I would definitely make it clear to him that he MUST use protection each & every time and hope that he would use some common sense and not go crazy & wild screwing anything & everything in sight.

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