Let's Talk About ... cl-misty_mae

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 6:51am

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 8:50am

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 9:46am

1. I see from your profile you quit smoking, how did you do that? Smoking aides, cold turkey, etc. and how hard was it? I've tried to quit smoking several times, and it's always been tough. This time, hubby and I managed to get away for a sex filled weekend at the beach. This distraction was a great jump start to the program, and I managed to quit fairly easily. I think I was more committed this time, but I did use a few patches over the next couple of weeks (not daily as intended) and used some nicotine gum while in the car. Sadly, I've cheated a couple of times this Summer, but thankfully, have not picked it back up as a habit. I'm still considering myself a non-smoker, the constant urges to have a cigarette are gone -- it's totally STUPID that I'm playing roulette by smoking on a rare occasion!



2. How long have you been married and how did you meet your Dh? In May, we celebrated our 16th anniversary. We met when I moved into his neighborhood. It was a small community of 20 townhouses. LOL, I thought he was the maintenance guy for the complex -- he humored me!



3. Where is one place you've had sex but would never do it there again? Oh there are probably a few just because I'll never be in the same environment again, but the one that could be repeated and never will, would be in my parents family room while they're home.



4. How old are your kids? 15 and 12



5. What's your favorite color? purple



6. Do you and Dh have a song that is *your song*? Not really. We get a little sentimental when the song "At Last" comes on because we danced to that at our wedding. The song wasn't popular at the time, but a remake had come out by Gene Watson on the country music station. That's the version we played, and we never hear it on the radio anymore. We figured everyone copied off of us as it seems to be a popular wedding song now, only by varying female artists.



7. Do you and Dh use sex toys during partner sex and if so, who came up with the idea? We do. Hubby brought the first toys into our bedroom many years ago, and I was a bit shy about using it. Since that time, a lot of things have changed, lol.



8. If you could live any place in the world, where would you want to live? Fortunately, I made that move a few years ago! We moved to a part of Florida that is just lovely. It's not too commercial, not too touristy, but still has a lot to offer and is close to the beaches, big cities, and lots of nature too.



9. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or the lights off? BOTH! Actually, I like some filtered light best.



Now for your question...



Have you ever explained to someone IRL how to give a blow job? If so, what was their reaction?










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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:21am

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:34am

Congrats to you too Tish. I know that's a similar story for hubby and I too. He quit shortly after we got married, at midnight during a Halloween party. Never had a problem being around me smoking either.

It is hard too to find something as a stress buster to replace cigarettes. They are such a crutch for so many things! I still haven't found anything that I can depend on. My kids are still too needy for me to just go for a walk or something when I'm feeling stressed. I guess getting on-line helps me be distracted.










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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:18am

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:35am

1-What CD is in your radio right now? I don't remember the title, but it's a Lyle Lovitt CD.



2-Did you have a blankie or stuff animal when you were little that you had to sleep with? None that I remember, but I do have a really worn out teddy bear from my childhood. I suspect I kept it around a lot. (I should ask my mom about that!)



3-What are you most afraid of? Someone hurting one of my kids.



4-If you got $1000 and could only spend it in one store, which store would it be? I think I would enjoy a store like Kohl's. I love their dishes, and if I didn't spend the grand in home goods, I could use some new sneakers and clothes are always fun!



5-Do you like to fly? I'm okay with flying, but can't say that I really like it.



6-Have you had sex on a plane? No :(



7-If you could have any car, what would you choose? Right now, my biggest dream would be to have a second car -- a soft top 4WD jeep. I need a beach mobile! I would like my first car to be a convertible, and have been trying to keep my dreams realistic. Seems the most realistic choice would be a Sebring convertible, but I wouldn't kick a vette outta da garage.



8-Are you looking forward or dreading your boys moving out of the house? Looking forward to it -- does that make me a bad mom, lol.



9-Does you mom annoy the rest of your family (hubby & kids) as much as she does you? No, I think that's why it pisses me off even more! Not even my brother -- she saves all of her annoying behavior for me!!!



10-Flavored or Regulare coffee? regular



Okay, now a question for you ...



How old do you think you want to be when you start having kids, and how many would you like to have?










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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 8:03pm

Enjoy your turn Misty :-)



  • What is your favourite sex threads to read?

  • What is your favourite sex discussions IRL with friends and/or DH

  • What kind of shoes do you wear most?

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 8:29pm

Enjoy your turn Misty :-) Thanks Marce!



  • What is your favourite sex threads to read? I enjoy reading the threads that talk about sex acts. When there's a thread on oral sex, g-spot orgasms, etc., that has *detail* about what works for individuals are always my favorite.


  • What is your favourite sex discussions IRL with friends and/or DH Some of the most productive sex discussions I have had since finding the boards on iVillage are those that I've had with hubby. Often, I'll talk to him about threads here, or read him posts, and they turn into very interesting conversations between us. It's a great way to learn more about your partner and how he/she feels about different things!


  • What kind of shoes do you wear most?




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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 9:48pm

Ok, Misty, I'm not feeling very creative tonight, but I'll try to come up with something.

1.What's your "pet peeve" (the thing that really bugs you to death, even if it's just something that may seem trivial to everyone else, like the shower curtain being left open)?

2.Have you taken your dream vacation, and what is it?

3.What kind of dog do you have, and do you have any other pets?

4.Are there any sex acts that you thought you'd never participate in, or enjoy, but you tried it and found you liked it? (Hopefully you can make some sense out of that question. I have a 6yo trying to talk my ear off)

5.Have you ever had to try not to laugh while disciplining your kids?

6.Do you ever eat in bed? Food, I mean. And I'm not talking about strawberries and whipped cream, either, lol.

I've got a phone call. I'll try to come up with some more later.

 

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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:08pm

I think these sound pretty creative!



1.What's your "pet peeve" (the thing that really bugs you to death, even if it's just something that may seem trivial to everyone else, like the shower curtain being left open)? When someone takes the garbage out but doesn't put a new liner in the wastebasket before they leave the room.



2.Have you taken your dream vacation, and what is it? I don't think so. I would like to travel with hubby across country, but I think our real dream vacation will be a cruise.



3.What kind of dog do you have, and do you have any other pets? Right now, I only have one dog. He's a Yorkie that we found homeless about 7 years ago. He was being abused by neighborhood kids while he was looking for a home, so we took him in and ran ads to find his owners. No luck for them, but great luck for us. He's a really sweat dog.



4.Are there any sex acts that you thought you'd never participate in, or enjoy, but you tried it and found you liked it? (Hopefully you can make some sense out of that question. I have a 6yo trying to talk my ear off) Thus far, no -- but I'm still waiting, lol. Hubby isn't as creative as I am, so I think I'm safe ;-)



5.Have you ever had to try not to laugh while disciplining your kids? OMG, yes! Sometimes, I have failed, lol.



6.Do you ever eat in bed? Food, I mean. And I'm not talking about strawberries and whipped cream, either, lol. Once in a rare while, we'll have a dessert in bed while watching TV. I'd say that's maybe 1-2 times a year. Other than that, only when I'm sick.



A question for you ....



Since you live out in the country now, do you and hubby ever have sex outside? If so, what has been the best experience so far?










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