shaving question for the ladies

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Registered: 05-15-2005
shaving question for the ladies
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Mon, 09-10-2007 - 9:25pm
Most of the women I dated in the past have been either partially shaven, or completely shaven. My DW alternates between completely shaven and a "landing strip." I enjoy either one, because I find her extremely attractive down there, and for me it enhances our sex play. I see the topic of shaving addressed frequently on these boards, and get the impression that trimming to some degree is fairly common. I'm just wondering if shaving or trimming is the new equivalent to shaving legs and arms. In other words, is hair in this area just as unwanted as hair in other areas.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 10:31pm

Welcome to the board rocketman.

I know that 20 years ago, seems no one was doing it. Now, it's all the rage. A lot of women seem to prefer it themselves, so that will probably keep it trendy for a lot longer. I also think younger guys are going to be more used to meeting well groomed ladies, and that will contribute to the longevity of the trend.

My hubby is 54, and he's anti-trimming. I am interested in it, so we sort of compromise. I trim close, but don't go bare. I will say that since I started trimming, I don't think I would ever go back to being completely natural. The hair just traps so many odors, and has other unpleasant side-effects, lol.










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Registered: 08-09-2007
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 11:03am
I agree Misty. Bikini line hair is unwanted in my book. I go completely bald. I like the smooth feel of it. And it does cut down on the sweaty odor as well. And my SO absolutely LOVES it. I shave everything, except the hair on my head of course. Lol All unsightly body hair I shave off completely and have no intentions of letting it grow back.


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Registered: 06-27-2005
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 9:17pm
Well you will find that more gals are shaving, triming and waxing. Us guys are not far behind now days. They are right. If the person is shaven or waxed it is much easer to keep clean, less odor. For those who shave it is an every day thing with stubble. For those of us who wax it is about every 4 to 5 weeks. After waxing you are really, really soft and smooth for much longer. Now if you want to try something new that will put a smile on your face. Book a waxing for your DW and yourself. Go together, watch each other get waxed. Then you will both have simles on your faces as you go home. Go to the mall or out to eat before you go home. You both will be thinking about each other and yourself. When you get home my guess is look out, what fun. I went brazilian 4 years ago, I will never go back to hair. Waxing really is the way to go!
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Registered: 02-26-2007
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 9:52pm

I agree with Misty. I had problems with odor. But once I started trimming, that problem is gone. I will shave only on the sides a little (just inside each leg) because so many outfits/bathing suits/etc. are high cut nowadays. I would love to try waxing, because I shave nearly every day (I'm a freak about stubble) and hate it. I just haven't had the money to do it.

I didn't start grooming that area for sex reasons. I did it just for me. But the one sexual benefit to trimming is that I can now feel his touch more in that area. He knows that now so sometimes he will tease me with that before going directly to the labia/clitoris.

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 10:04pm
What does it cost for wax? How do they do the waxing? Do they have your vagina fully exposed or somehow cover it up. I use a beard trimmer but that doesn't get very close. I talked to the woman that cuts my hair and she suggested that I could get a wax. I don't know where I would go that they would wax a guys pubic area. If I did, would they have my genitals completely exposed (I would like that)? I'm sure it would hurt but I would be interested in seeing how much better it would be. Has anybody gotten laser treatments to remove pubic hair?
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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 09-11-2007 - 11:54pm
I say shave it all off! LOL! I prefer to be completely bare down "thare". IMHO the hair made me feel old. I also think it inhibits sensations during sex.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 6:20am

Welcome to the board canamken.

I haven't gotten waxed, but other members have said it's around $50. As far as what's exposed, I'm not sure.

Hopefully other male members (no pun intended) will be along to share with you.










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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 8:55am
Hi canamken. Up here in New Hampshire I paid $75 for a wax. I only found one place within a 25 mile radius. Yes, you are fully exposed, but the woman was good. We just kept chatting with each other. It did sting but I don't think it was really that painful. Ask your hair dresser if she can recommend a place/person.



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Registered: 03-29-2003
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 10:10am

Do you know if these women can and will wax a man's genital region? I really would like to get a wax for two reasons. The obvious one is having complete stranger, and a women, seeing and touching my exposed genital area while performing the waxing. The other is to experience the complete smoothness without any stubble. I just trimmed myself bare this past Saturday and within a day or so, there is already stubble. The beard trimmer really doesn't get me completely smooth.

Another concern I have is getting an erection while she was preparing for and performing the waxing, and along with the erection and the thoughts running though my mind, comes some pre-cum. I often get pre-cum leakage while I am trimming myself because of the look of my bare genitals and thoughts of how it's going to feel during sex later.

The first time I went for a massage, I got this huge erection while the young lady left the room so I could get undressed and under the cover on the table. My mind was racing and heart beating faster as I took off each piece of clothing until I was standing there completely naked in an aroused state with pre-cum starting to appear at the tip of my penis. It was difficult to control myself, knowing that this young women, who is a complete stranger, was about to enter the room see me in this aroused state and begin to massage my naked body. Fortunately I was able to redirect my mind and get the erection down somewhat.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 11:29am
I would think that's something you need to ask when you call. I know the place I went did have a male that also did waxing.



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