I agree with Misty on this one. I do plan on having a threesome soon and recording it too. But I wouldn't tell anyone but my girl and or you all on this message board. Even though my family and not so close friends pretty much know I'm a freak, I wouldn't tell them anything like that.
We just had our first experience an new years and it was great. We have been going to a club in Dallas for a year just to watch and flirt and get turned-on by all the exhibitionists.
We met a couple there that we have drinks with whenever we go and they had invited us out several times. I think we were both surprised at ourselves when we accepted their invitation at new years. It really turned out well and we have plans to hook up again for Valentines day. The girls are cooking something up that they wont tell us guys about, all I get is a smile when I ask.
If your relationship is solid and your not the jealous type it can be a life changing adventure. You have to ask yourself some hard questions going in so you will be prepared. Things like how will I feel seeing someone else having sex with my lover, and how will she feel seeing me with another woman. Also your tolerance level for experimentation and new things should be very high.
The key for us was a lot of alcohol to break down our last inhibitions. After the first time it gets easier and you learn to relax and have even more fun. I have confided in several close friends and they are all very supportive. Many are impressed with our courage and most of my married male friends are green with envy.
Wow that is definitely a tough question. My dw and I live a quazzy open relationship, we have had 2 3some since being married and 1 prior to marriage all of them together. She also has a "fwb" to an extent where she has performed oral on him but that's as far as it has gone, though we plan on having a 3some with him in time. We have definitely had an interest in swapping/swap clubs though have not attended one before. Living in small town USA and with my job where I have a great deal of interaction with the public not sure who I would tell any of our extra curricular fun to if anyone as wouldn't want it to affect my reputation especially in a small town. Which is always a concern of mine with wife and her "fwb" of him blabbing to any of his friends and things getting out beyond that. Would definitely have to be someone I trust completely to tell them anything like that.
Linda, I've never been involved in a 3-some or more-some. I think it's great that you have people you can talk and share this experience with.
I think I have some friends that I would be able to tell if I ever decided to give this a try, but for the most part, mum would be the word.
Build Your Own Toy Story!
I agree with Misty on this one. I do plan on having a threesome soon and recording it too. But I wouldn't tell anyone but my girl and or you all on this message board. Even though my family and not so close friends pretty much know I'm a freak, I wouldn't tell them anything like that.
Cherron'
We just had our first experience an new years and it was great. We have been going to a club in Dallas for a year just to watch and flirt and get turned-on by all the exhibitionists.
We met a couple there that we have drinks with whenever we go and they had invited us out several times. I think we were both surprised at ourselves when we accepted their invitation at new years. It really turned out well and we have plans to hook up again for Valentines day. The girls are cooking something up that they wont tell us guys about, all I get is a smile when I ask.
If your relationship is solid and your not the jealous type it can be a life changing adventure. You have to ask yourself some hard questions going in so you will be prepared. Things like how will I feel seeing someone else having sex with my lover, and how will she feel seeing me with another woman. Also your tolerance level for experimentation and new things should be very high.
The key for us was a lot of alcohol to break down our last inhibitions. After the first time it gets easier and you learn to relax and have even more fun.
I have confided in several close friends and they are all very supportive. Many are impressed with our courage and most of my married male friends are green with envy.
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I really don't like to kiss and tell.