phone sex help plz

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Registered: 10-28-2006
phone sex help plz
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Fri, 02-01-2008 - 12:38am

Hi Guy's

I need your help... alright my partner and i are exploring phone sex..
and i really like it..I'm new to it he's not..
But here's the thing i know how to talk dirty
in bed but that's different... then the phone i can't seem to be as
detailed as my imagination is.. I just can't find the words..
didn't have to be detailed in bed lol because it was real! lol
We both turn each other on and have no problem climaxing..
That's not an issue hehe.. But do any of yall have idea's
as to how to talk in detail? Like how can i explain in detail
how I'd like to give him a BJ ?? Its probably silly but i can't seem
to explain this very well.. i try to I WANT to lol..When i practice and say it out loud it just doesn't sound right.. like i wanna suck your .... Is that good???
or not?? then after that what could be some good things to say?? This is where
i get stuck!!! I'm new to this and it's steping out of what i'm use to
but i like it hehe We are going to talk tomorrow
night..grin.. any and all suggestions for phone sex in general as well is appreciated !

Thanks in advance
kareese

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 02-01-2008 - 8:14am

Kareese, I'm great at thinking of ideas for things to say if I were to have phone sex, but not nearly as good at actually doing it, LOL.

As far as a BJ, I would be very descriptive about what leads up to the BJ and exactly how you plan to give it to him. I would also interject what you're doing and how you're positioned during the BJ. As well as you can plan it, how well it goes, or how silly you feel, will depend on his reaction to what you're saying. Those things that he reacts well to are the things that you want to go with during the conversation.

If you have difficulty thinking up all of the details on your own, you can go back to a past experience and break it down into detail as a 'remember when' event. If you have a favorite fantasy, you could pull from that. Also, you can go on what you would want him to do to you, or explain how he feels when he's inside of you, etc.

I think if you can get him hot and steamy, reacting to what you're saying, then it will be easy to let your mind start getting into the fantasy. Also, since he's had experience, you could let him begin. The two of you could even build scenes together (where he starts the scene, takes it to a certain point, and then you take over and stop at some point to pass it back to him, and so forth).

Hope you have fun with it .... come back and give us some pointers too!





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Registered: 10-28-2006
Fri, 02-01-2008 - 5:15pm

Thanks Misty!
hehe when i get the hang of it better I'll share some pointers hehe
Its a ton of fun i'm having fun exploring it and exploring my self at the
same time! Its great lol!
kareese