First Time Sex with New Love

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Registered: 08-06-2006
First Time Sex with New Love
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Sun, 02-03-2008 - 9:22pm

Hi Everyone,


My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 yrs now, and yes we have been intimatte. But prior to becoming intimate with him, I use to wonder what are the appropriate timelines to making that move in to physical intimacy. For many this question varies, and we all know the politically correct answer-enough time to really get to know the person. Yeah this answer is true, but again, let's move beyond the surface answers.


Upon entering

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-20-2007
Sun, 02-03-2008 - 10:32pm

No shy folks here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2003
Sun, 02-03-2008 - 10:36pm

I've only seriously dated/slept with two men. The first was a long distance relationship and we were both virgins, so we waited well over a year. With my current boyfriend, I was begging him to sleep with me a little over two weeks after our first date (we'd known each other about a month and a half).

So obviously, there's no general rule for me. When it feels right, I go for it.