How about - 5 things that please a man?

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Registered: 12-28-2007
How about - 5 things that please a man?
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Mon, 02-04-2008 - 6:13am

I can't think of 5 things that please a man.


I can come up with 2 things.


Pleasing his lady and bj


I need other things to do...to make my sex life more exciting for him.

Missy
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Registered: 01-04-2008
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 7:40am
Well they always say the way to a man's heart is through his belly!! Cook him his favorite meal especially if it is unexpected and is all ready upon arriving home from work. Another favorite of mine is when dw simply decides to give me nice long massage with lotion/oil. New sexy lingerie on you is always a favorite of many men as we know it is a good chance it will lead to pleasuring our lady. Something unexpected that we like or enjoy is always one way to please us
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 7:59am
Why don't you ask your man what he likes?
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Registered: 02-03-2008
Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:07am
The one thing that Sarah-Jane does best is talk with her eyes, an art I believe. She looks into my eyes and we can have a full conversation virtually and I will know when it is time to strip of naked and wait for her to cum into the bedroom.

Secondly, we men loves our testicles massaged and right round to our anus, especially the bit in-between.

Thirdly, almost all men have sensitive nipples. Tweak them and roll them between finger and thumb, standing behind us and reaching round and we will melt and do anything.

Fourthly, When we are going out and the weather is warm, no pantyless with a loose flowing dress. Drives us crazy knowing what others cannot touch.

And finally, personally, tease me with a strapon and a long narrowish dong and I would be in heaven, especially after you had rolled the tight rubbers off my nipple pump and they were sticking out proud, so sensitive to the touch.

Hope that has given you a few ideas. There are obviously loads more that others may enjoy.

David
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 1:21pm

I see you have already gotten a lot of great ideas, but I thought I'd add a little more. Guys usually love it when their woman initiates sex, which can begin early in the day. Try sending him dirty texts or e-mails, little comments on the phone, leaving notes in his car or the bathroom vanity. Keep his mind on sex -- and let him know that yours is there too.

Make sure that when you are being sexual with him, no matter what you're doing, that you enjoy what you're doing and that's where you want to be. That's a huge turn on for most guys. Doing a striptease or lap dance is also something that can turn the heat up.

Here are a couple of articles that you might find helpful too:

3 Surefire Ways to Please a Man in Bed
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,drpatti_mg4w,00.html

10 All-Time Best Bedroom Tricks
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,traceycox_b1g0g04t,00

10 Things Good Girls Can Learn from Porn Stars
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,9x7nhpjx,00.html





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Registered: 12-07-2007
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 1:34pm
As the others said many different things turn on many different men. My DH is attracted to long hair and prefers when I wear it curly rather then straight. I just got a great idea...how about you have your guy for valentines day give you something that he doesnt have to buy..have him write you a list of all the things he likes or things he would like to try, bring into your relationship etc. Maybe he likes it when you paint your toe nails and that is sexy for him but you dont always do it because he has never told you so this is a great way. Make sure he knows that no matter what he writes down you will not judge him just incase there is something that is completely taboo for you. And finally you could do the same for him and make him a list of your likes, desires and fantasies.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 02-06-2008 - 8:48pm
Great idea Tiffany!