So...how can I do more?
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So...how can I do more?
| Mon, 02-04-2008 - 10:29pm |
I'm relatively new to sex, and I kinda feel like I just lay there. I mean, I enjoy it, and I know he enjoys it, but I feel like I don't participate much.
Any tips or things I can do to be more involved?







Just laying there will get old and very
Welcome to the board, crunchyananas.
As Tish said, just laying there will get boring for both of you pretty quickly. Even something as simple as moaning can get you more into the act. Try varying positions, and don't be afraid to tell him what's working and what's not. Spend a good bit of time during foreplay appreciating his body, paying attention to all of his parts, and finding his erogenous zones. Get comfortable letting him do the same with you.
You might want to read some of the other posts on the board for ideas, but here are some articles to get you started too:
Banish Sexual Boredom
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexinthemood/0,,drpatti_1kkm,00.html
Arousing Alternatives to the Missionary Position
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,drpatti_34s,00.html
Spice Up the Missionary Position
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,askmen_bqds5tlh,00.html?nlcid=ls|06-28-2007|
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