Getting involved with someone's guy

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2008
Getting involved with someone's guy
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Sun, 02-10-2008 - 3:02pm

Hi,


I'm new at this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 02-10-2008 - 3:49pm
IMHO you shouldn't do it. Your just setting yourself up for hurt especially since he already has a SO in his life.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 02-10-2008 - 3:53pm

Flip the coin, say

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 02-10-2008 - 7:52pm

Welcome to the board, tdoug38.

For me, it would be a no go. Even if the sex was great, I wouldn't want to be involved in something that hurt another person (his GF), nor would I want to set myself up to be hurt.

A roll in the hay can be great, but it sounds like you're already developing some sort of feelings for this guy. I would look for someone to have fun with that is available and carrying less baggage.



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