Tie Him Up?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2007
Tie Him Up?
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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 12:57pm
My boyfriend has told me that he would like for me to tie him up and have my way with him. I have never done it, but I would like to. But, first, I don't even know the best way to tie him up. What do you use? What do you tie him to? Then, what are the best things to do once he is tied up? I want to really make sure that he enjoys this. I'm pretty sure I will. I can really use any advice you all can give!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-11-2006
In reply to: angelhill99
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 1:52pm

I am doing this for the first time in V-day. Since I've never done this before I do have a plan, and I don't mind sharing.


he sits on a kitchen chair, hands behind his back gently tied with a soft scarf or ribbon. Your man may want it tight so he really can't move, but I think my man is a tad shy so I'll be gentle.


Then he is getting his and my first ever striptease/lap dance.


I bought a new bra and panties yesterday just for this occasion and I'm not sure what to wear over them yet besides high heels. any advice? I thought a zip back strait skirt would be best, but I don't have one. Maybe just one of his dress shirts?


but here's my plan: push him down in the chair, pull the ribbon off from around my neck and very slowly and seductively walk around him. then pull his hands behind him and tie them, this way he can't touch, just watch.


For the rest i got some really good ideas from ivillage articles.


one was: "striptease 101"

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: angelhill99
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 2:27pm

Welcome to the board, angelhill99.

You could always tie his hands over his head or to the bedposts. If you have a footboard, tie his feet to them too so he's lying spread eagle.

Once you have him tied up, you can tease his senses by using items with different textures, smells, tastes or things of hot/cold temperature. You can have him blindfolded or not, it's up to you, but if he's not blindfolded, the best thing you can do is put on a good show for him. Whether you're riding him, dancing for him, giving him oral, the idea is to give him a show and make him want to touch you. Of course, he can't because he's tied up.

One word of caution though. If you plan to do anything that might be painful to him, you should develop a safe word first. A word that he can say -- that you won't confuse -- that let's you know really clearly that he is done. Most of the members here that practice varying sorts of bondage would also discourage the use of stockings, silk scarves, ties, etc. for tying him up. If he pulls on those items, he can actually tighten them up and cause problems of cutting off his circulation or requiring that they be cut off of him. The safe word is also helpful because having him beg you to untie him can be part of the fun -- in that case, he doesn't really want to be untied.

Let us know how it goes!



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