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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 8:43pm

WHY DO BOYS WANT TO DO IT THERE WAY?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 1:16am

For the same reason that most girls want to do it their way!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 6:17am

Welcome to the board, sexii2008.

Everyone wants everything their way, but when it comes to relationships, it certainly doesn't work out if both people aren't happy. Not all men "want it their way" -- most want the woman to be happy also. It really works to their benefit as well, since a woman who enjoys sex is much more likely to be creative and want to have more sex.

A very important thing someone told me once: "You teach people how to treat you."

He can't have it his way unless you're willing to let him. In that case, you're teaching him that it's okay to be selfish and not take your wants/needs into consideration. Tell him what you want/need, outside of the bedroom setting, and give him a chance to respond. You may not get it all your way either, but in a healthy relationship, the partners at least try to compromise.

Good luck, and let us know how it goes.



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In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 7:46am

Not all men want it their way.

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In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:09am
maybe that boy thinks he knows it all. But he is actually ignorant to the fact that it can be even better when the woman gets her way.


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Registered: 02-12-2008
In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 6:21pm

When mama is happy - everyone

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In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 7:01pm
VERY true.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sexii2008
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 11:04pm
Welcome to the board, hernewguy.


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Registered: 02-12-2008
In reply to: sexii2008
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 7:07am
Thank you.

RJJJ


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In reply to: sexii2008
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 7:12am
Well, according to blogthings .....




You Have Many Alpha Tendencies




You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way.

You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.



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Registered: 02-12-2008
In reply to: sexii2008
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 7:34am

Hmmmm, You're not a total alpha female, but you certainly know how to - and like to - get your way.
You're forceful without being intimidating. You're confident without being vain. A perfect mix.


That sounds like

RJJJ


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