embarassing question

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Registered: 07-26-2005
embarassing question
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Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:15pm

Hello everyone,


I have an embarassing question and maybe a selfish one...


I am in an LDR, and we see each other about once every 6 weeks.

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Registered: 12-08-2007
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:43pm
I kind of understand where you're coming from. I don't like giving if I'm not getting cuz giving makes me super horny! DH and I are not into sex at that time either. We tried it again recently, just to make sure, and we are sure! EWE! ANyway, if you use tampons, it may be an option for him to get you off manually. I do understand though, and I don't think it's selfish of you to not want to give if you aren't getting.
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Registered: 06-24-2006
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 8:43pm

When that time of the month arrives at my house, SO knows there is no action for a few days, but not because I dont want to, I am not into all that mess. But I do enjoy giving him some pleasure, as I know he is thoroughly enjoying himself, and for me, I am very happy for that. Of course I would love to have him and do what I please, but since I cant I just work around it. Just a suggestion, you can just wash up down there, pop in a tampon and still have fun by masterbating in front of him, or have him do that for you. We do it often , its fun, and you get to still have intimate time but without the mess...Have fun, and good luck!!!

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Registered: 04-11-2006
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:06pm

i don't like having sex while on my period either. and i also don't like giving and not getting. ok, as long as we are getting personal and private about our time of the month - do you wear tampons? I know not all women do. But as long as I'm wearing a tampon, then clitoral stimulation is still a go for us.


just a suggestion.


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Wed, 02-13-2008 - 10:22pm

Thanks for all the advice, everyone!


I am not a big fan of tampons at all.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 3:38am
If you use a menstrual cup like the Instead brand (found at your local pharmacy and even Walmart) you can actually have sex during your period with very little or no clean up. Just make sure to use lube, since the cup keeps all your natural lubrication, well, in the cup. I have been using Instead for almost 7 yrs now and I can't imagine going back to tampons. They are so much better! Takes some getting used to, but really, it's worth it.

 

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Registered: 01-25-2008
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 7:50am

hi goldengirl


I must say I do get very horny when I'm on, so getting my bf off and not getting any action myself is a bit frustrating....last month we had sex in the shower, I was at the end of my period so there was almost no bleeding and the sensation of his penis inside me was even greater than usual esecially when he enterd me from behid...real bliss - try it you may like ie a lot....


best wishes


belladonna

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 8:10am
As a guy, I have no problem with going down on my wife during her period
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Registered: 12-27-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 12:22pm
I don't think you are being selfish at all! For me,

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Registered: 02-04-2008
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 5:33pm

I agree with PP's that you are not being selfish.

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Registered: 05-13-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 6:56pm

hehe, must be the odd

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