V-day Gift for him. please look.
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V-day Gift for him. please look.
| Thu, 02-14-2008 - 1:08pm |
ok, I made these coupons. what do you think? how do they look. and yes, that's me in the picture. is it too much? I need more ideas for a few more coupons. I'm going to put them in an envelope and put leave them on his desk at the office....too risky?


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Wow, that is awesome. I would be ecstatic to receive something like that. You can make them into anything. A good idea is after he redeems a few of them. Ask him what kinds of coupons he would like to see in the next edition of that booklet.
Oh and I hope I am not too forward in saying. You are absolutely gorgeous. Any modeling in your past? Seeing a pretty face like that is enough to entice anyone I think.
cbh
Oh my... I love them...You are very beautiful.
Is that desk in a home office? If not, make sure to seal and mark the envelope confidential.
Those are great, Maggie.
I don't think it's too much and putting them on his desk shouldn't be a problem if they are in an envelope.
Are you printing them in black and white or in color?
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well, that was very sweet, thank you! ummm, no I've never modeled, I'm just a normal person. but thank you.
thank you for suggesting i ask HIM what he would like. It will give him an opportunity to talk about these things, he is quite resevered - in every way.
I just made some more coupons.
no, his office is not at home. But it's his own office, he doesn't share it with anybody. Don't you think most people wouldn't open a sealed envelope that said, "To Matthew, Happy Valentine's Day"
and you are very nice. thank you. did you see above, my other coupons and what they say? what do you think?
… Em
Well, I would hope no one would open an envelope that had that written on it... Unless their name happened to be Matthew, too... lol
I think those are great. I wonder though if maybe try to think of six other things. I'm sure others can help think of something. That way you can have one for each month.
Well its well deserved. Your husband is a lucky man.
A basic suggestion is "are there things that you do only occasionally?" Meaning that they are left to be for 'special' occasions. for instance, my wife doesn't swallow. But on special occasions she will. Are there things that you only do occasionally. This way if he has a coupon its not like he is asking, but actually accepting your offer.
I love the "fantasy fulfilled" one. When you put something into a middle step, without directly asking the other person it almost shields the person from the fear of rejection. It's a great option.
Do you have any fantasies that you are too shy to reveal to your husband? mixing them into the middle of the coupons would be a subtle way to ask him, without opening yourself up to the fear of rejection. You can know his answer if he doesn't redeem the coupon. Or it might safely open up a dialog that the two of you can talk about.
cbh
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LOL - literally
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