How do you feel about Porn?
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How do you feel about Porn?
| Tue, 02-19-2008 - 9:05am |
How do you feel about Porn?
- I'm a guy .... I love it!
- I'm a guy ---- it's okay sometimes.
- I'm a guy, but I only watch it with my partner.
- I'm a guy and I hate it!
- I'm a female ... I love it!
- I'm a female ---- it's okay sometimes.
- I'm a female, but I only watch it with my partner.
- I'm a female and I hate it!
- It is forbidden in my relationship!
- Other, I'll explain ...
You will be able to change your vote.


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I don't have a problem with it (actually enjoy it myself), but I know that sometimes it does interfere in a relationship. Some people really hate it, and in that case, they don't want their SO looking at it. In most of those cases, I think communication and understanding would go a long way to improving the situation.
I've never met a guy who would prefer porn to the real thing, but I do think some women can make such a big deal out of his interest in porn that it can seem that way. I'm not saying that there aren't guys who watch too much porn, but in those cases, I wonder what the rest of the relationship is like. I think for one thing in a relationship to cause so many problems, there must be other things interfering as well.
Also, I don't mean to stereotype, but I've never heard of a guy complaining about his female mate having too much interest in porn, LOL.
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My vote was I'm a female, and it's okay sometimes. Although I'm not presently in a relationship and when I was it was never off limits in any way. Porn do add a nice touch from time to time when I'm solo-ing or if watched with a partner, but it's not a necessity for me to get off. I tend to find, even when I'm watching porn, I tend to drift off anyway onto fantasizing about something more interesting like things I've done to or with
I dated a guy once, who had a roommate that was wayyyyy too into the pron! He'd make a girl wait till he was done. He'd be in there for hours! Once the guy I was with cleaned some of it up & it seriously filled 2 big garbage bags, with more left in the room, all spilling out of the closet.
And women wanted to date him. He was going to be a doctor, was already up to residency. I'm sure they all thought, he'll stop for me!
Yeah, that sounds a little obsessive and excessive to me.
It's sad to think that anyone would see all of that and think he would change for anyone.
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I put other, I'll explain.
Overall, I don't have a general opinion of porn.
In my relationship, porn is fine (or good, depending on the video, lol) - seriously though, it is ok in our relationship.
I selected "other".
I tend to like hard core porn for the very reason that there is little or no story line. It's the stuff where they try to make a story line that tends to distract me from the original reason for watching in the first place, LOL. Another problem that I have with some supposedly 'female friendly' porn is that they assume women don't want to see male genitals. I feel cheated when that happens!
There are some women who direct and/or produce porn. You might want to check out Candida Royalle or Nina Hartley.
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We recently saw "Rush" which was decent enough.
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