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| Mon, 03-03-2008 - 2:06pm |
Dont know if I'm on the right board here, but I have a question/comment.
Been involved w/ a MM for a few yrs. now, mostly sex, but we are best friends.

Welcome to the board, sachi_grl, and yes, your questions are completely appropriate to ask here.
Different people like different things when it comes to anal play. It sounds like your guy might have been experimenting some. Perhaps he was thinking about trying anal rimming (actually licking your anus), and was starting slowly to see how you would react to it.
As far as anyone else's thoughts on whether you participate in any type of anal activity -- they really aren't important. It's all about what you and your partner might like to try. If it's something you're interested in, then go for it.
Age, having children, etc. shouldn't make any difference. Also, it doesn't have to hurt -- and shouldn't hurt if done properly. If you want to give it a try, you should educate yourself about anal sex. There are definitely do's and don'ts. You could just be prepared for if he ever wants to try it, or you could try talking to him about it to see if he would like to give it a try. If you're having sex with someone, you should at least be comfortable enough talking to that person about sex, kwim?
Here are some articles that you might find helpful:
5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,jdgc,00.html
Adventurous Intimacy: 6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,b31g,00.html
I want to try anal sex
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_602026,00.html
Second Opinions: Anal Sex
What you should know
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/0,,7558qs10,00.html
Good luck with what ever you decide. Feel free to ask more questions, or let us know how things go.
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