I Need Some Advice..

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2008
I Need Some Advice..
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 12:45am

So, my husband is currently deployed. He's due home in 2 months! we were only married for a couple of weeks before he left, we've always had a really great sex life (we got up to having sex 4 sometimes 5 times a day) and I want his homecoming to be an amazing night. I heard about "squirting" and I would love to do it, however I don't know how. I've tried everything everyone has said (yes, I've read up on it) so I was hoping for some tips.. I want to make sure this is a homecoming he will never forget! Please help me out :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 1:35am

FE, like orgasms, are not something you just "decide" to do.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 8:53am

Welcome to the board, lilmissluvableme.

I agree with what Sakura said. Even if you learn to FE, it's not likely that you can stage the right circumstances to do so with your partner unless the two of you talk about what you need first. Now, you could learn how to FE with a toy and then put on a show for him (something I'm sure he would enjoy as a second or third course).

When you FE, it feels like you need to pee. It's natural to fight that feeling when you're not near a toilet ... what you need to do is relax and go with the feeling. Pushing out a little helps get everything started too. The only time I have been able to FE while alone is when using my rabbit vibe. Those beads really do make a difference, and having it combine with clitoral stimulation is a huge bonus.