You have a lot of things mixed into your message. "Normal" isn't a word that really applies to most things of a sexual nature. As far as him going soft, there are a million in one different reasons why that may have occurred.
For your needs during sex, have you told him what you need? Since this is a new experience for you, you might want to take a look at the website www.the-clitoris.com. As a matter of fact, you might want to look at it with your BF. Your BF can do a lot of things to make your sex life good, but he can't do it alone. You need to be an active participant in that as well. The more the two of you communicate and learn about each other, the better it will become.
Welcome to the board, faeith.
You have a lot of things mixed into your message. "Normal" isn't a word that really applies to most things of a sexual nature. As far as him going soft, there are a million in one different reasons why that may have occurred.
For your needs during sex, have you told him what you need? Since this is a new experience for you, you might want to take a look at the website www.the-clitoris.com. As a matter of fact, you might want to look at it with your BF. Your BF can do a lot of things to make your sex life good, but he can't do it alone. You need to be an active participant in that as well. The more the two of you communicate and learn about each other, the better it will become.
Here are a few articles you might find helpful:
Know Thyself: The Female Form 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,traceycox_b6vtmjv3,00.html
Speak Up! Ask Him for What You Want
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscommunicate/0,,7ffztdxn,00.html
5 Things That Can Ruin Your Sex Life (and how to avoid them)
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexconcerns/0,,traceycox_7slp2dh5,00.html
Not Quite Engaged ~ Breaking Up is Hard To Do
... Does SIZE Matter? ...
There is no such thing as "normal" when it comes to sexual relations.
You already got alot of great advice. I want to add that you seem to have alot going on in your life between working, school, and household. That can
Wendy