Confused, What's with him?

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Registered: 10-18-2007
Confused, What's with him?
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Fri, 03-14-2008 - 10:37am
Ok, quick question. Why would a man continue to sleep with a woman, if the majority of the time he doesn't ejaculate? I mean if a man and a women have sex all the time and he never gets off but he makes sure that she does, why would he be ok with this? Why would he just turn over afterwards and just go to sleep? Why would he come back for more with her? Thanks!
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 03-14-2008 - 10:51am

Who says he HAS to ejaculate to enjoy what he's doing?

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Registered: 12-27-2007
Fri, 03-14-2008 - 11:21am
Hey, as a guy, I would gladly do this for my partner. my greatest pleasure is in pleasing her, that is what realy gets me off. So many people treat this like it is the running of the Blemont Stakes, it's not about the prize, well, not solely, it about the race. Good loving is like a pleasere trip, you are supposed to enjoy the journey!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 03-14-2008 - 2:50pm

Welcome to the board, mamabear_2222.

Ejaculation is just one part of having sex with a partner, and for the guy you're talking about, it appears to not be a necessity for him to enjoy himself. He could have some physical problems or he could have some psychological reasons that are keeping him from ejaculating. There is even one condition where he would ejaculate but it would go into his bladder instead of squirting out during sex. This is called Retrograde Ejaculation. Here's some information on it:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation

If I was in a relationship with a guy and had this going on, I would talk to him about it -- but I wouldn't make a big issue out of it. Since it can be a sign that he has other health issues, if he isn't sure why it's happening, he might want to talk with his doctor about it.





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Registered: 06-24-2006
Fri, 03-14-2008 - 5:40pm
Just because he cant ejaculate doesnt mean he is not enjoying himself very much.

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