more than one lover

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Registered: 08-02-2004
more than one lover
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Wed, 07-23-2008 - 4:03am

Just curious if any of you that have been dating around found yourself having sex with more than one guy in the same week?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 6:26am
When I was a college student, I had a few alcohol induced encounters. I had a BF "back home", so my drunken encounters caused me guilt because I was cheating on him.














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Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 4:29pm

I have no problem having more than one lover so long as all parties are practicing safe sex.I have been exploring the pro's and con's of having polyamorous relationships.Sometimes it just seems like it's all about dating more than one person, but in reality it is what you make it..an extended family that some you have sex with and some you do not, just different levels of intimacy.Plus I am a member of the BDSM comunity and we have "play mates" for non-sexual activities and that is mostly ok with a persons sexual partner.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 4:47pm
Welcome to the board, Brandy, it's great to see you joining in.














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Registered: 05-24-2008
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 5:38pm
When one relationship ends and another begins or if the relationships are casual.
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Wed, 07-23-2008 - 10:25pm
I was thinking more in terms of going out on a Monday with one guy and then Saturday comes around and you go out with a different guy and maybe you have sex with each guy or you give one a bj and have intercourse with the other and then maybe with a different guy a few days later you give a hand job to.
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Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 2:27pm
I see.
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Registered: 04-13-2007
Thu, 07-24-2008 - 2:44pm

Never did it but my bf has.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2004
Fri, 07-25-2008 - 1:43am

This is an interesting twist then. Did it turn you on at all thinking about it later.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 07-30-2008 - 7:08pm
I have had sex with one person and then had sex with another the following day. As long as everything is consensual and safe, I have no problem with it. I do not see what difference it is to have sex with two people in the same day or a year later if no one involved is in a monogamous relationship. Basically, as long as everyone involved is okay with it, it's okay.

 

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Thu, 07-31-2008 - 1:34am
I like your answer.

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