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weird problem? help me fix this pls.
| Sun, 08-03-2008 - 3:14am |
my bf of 18 months has a problem with having sex while im on my period.
| Sun, 08-03-2008 - 3:14am |
my bf of 18 months has a problem with having sex while im on my period.
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Welcome to the board, Emily.
It sounds like your BF is just squeamish about the blood. I wouldn't try to look for reasons outside of that.
While there's nothing wrong with having sex during your period, it's obvious he's not into it. Perhaps wearing a tampon or menstrual cup and being clean would encourage him to try some manual stimulation, or you could use a sex toy or masturbate as a show for him. Use that as a way to show him that there are other things that can be done besides intercourse or activities that would cause a "mess".
Another thing you could try is to have sex in the shower during that time.
Here are a couple of Q&A's that you might want to share with him as well:
How should I have sex during my period?
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638353_640467,00.html
Does it gross guys out when a woman has her period?
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandmen/0,,guystellall_850zf52s,00.html
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Some men don't mind it, others do.
just a couple of quick suggestions....when I am at the tail-end of my period, my flow is, of course, much, much lighter.
A guys 2 cents worth. I have never had a problem making love to my partner during her monthly and never had a health issue because of it. Making love in the shower is a lot of fun!!
DD
Hello Emily,
I'm a man so there is no way I'm going to fully understand your dilemma.