Advise...?

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Registered: 11-07-2007
Advise...?
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Wed, 08-06-2008 - 7:18pm
So I am due to have our 3rd child on August 30th, and to date the pregnancy has been great! By far the best that I have had out of the three. Our sex life has remained great as well, although its been entirely anal and oral for the last two months. Anyways, my question comes from a request/topic that my husband raised the other night. He indicated that assuming the delivery goes well and there are no complications, after everything has settled down and everyone has left for the night, he wants to make love to me that night in the hospital. He said it turns him on like crazy just thinking about it, and also thinks it would be

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: j12775
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 9:11pm

There's a reason why you're supposed to wait to have sex until after your postnatal check up and that's to make sure everything is healed properly, inside and outside whether it's a vaginal birth or C-section.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: j12775
Wed, 08-06-2008 - 9:13pm
"Thoughts?"


I would follow the advice of the doctor. Even with an easy delivery, your body needs time to heal and avoid the possibility of infection.














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Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: j12775
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 8:33am

ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: j12775
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 9:33am
Not a smart thing to do. There are reasons why you're told to wait 6 weeks.

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Registered: 05-04-2008
In reply to: j12775
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 9:45am
Offer to do him with a massive strap on just after a hemorrhoid operation, does that sound fair?

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Registered: 02-05-2008
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 7:38am

I think I know what you are talking about but I agree with the advice expressed by the

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 10:00am

Nikki said:


Offer to do him with a massive strap on just after a hemorrhoid operation, does that sound fair?


Yes, that definitely sounds fair to me!

 

 

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 12:48pm
That's how my husband is around babies, he's crazy around babies.
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Registered: 02-05-2008
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 4:44pm

I'm glad to know my darlin's not the only one!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: j12775
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 6:11pm

I got way over the baby thing years ago. It hit me like a freight train when I was holding one of my nephews. I loved seeing him, holding him, and hugging him, but when I handed him back to his dad, I knew I was past the point of wanting more. I can't even explain what all I felt.

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