Oh, I totally understand; the first time I used a handheld mirror to "watch" myself, I started thinking about how weird things looked down there...one side was more "uneven", there was a little too much skin in some areas...but then I realized that hey, it all feels the same, lol! Seeing ourselves in a new way is always unnerving at first, but I bet you'll discover how fun it (using a mirror!) is and you won't be self-conscious any more :)
How about this ... imagine you bake a dish for someone you care for. You don't like the concoction yourself, but you know that this other person just loves it. You can tease that person with the smell and appearance, a slice of the dish .... smiling and knowing that the other person is eagerly awaiting that dish.
Besides all that, we are all a little different, unique and special in our own way. Beautiful being who we are .....
KD,
If any man you meet and become intimate with doesn't think you are damn sexy down there, then he isn't the right man for you!
KD - - I've been following your adventurous life changes these past couple of months in silence.
RJJJ
How about this ... imagine you bake a dish for someone you care for. You don't like the concoction yourself, but you know that this other person just loves it. You can tease that person with the smell and appearance, a slice of the dish .... smiling and knowing that the other person is eagerly awaiting that dish.
Besides all that, we are all a little different, unique and special in our own way. Beautiful being who we are .....
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Hey Kitchen_Diva, I am not overly in love with my girly parts, but I love
I have held off from commenting...not certain how to phrase what I wanted to say.
When you look in a mirror you see a reflection of yourself...you see what others see.
Mrs P
I am not ignoring you all.
KD,
I remember the first time I saw myself in that same way, not long ago as a matter of fact.