Need Help Understanding This

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Registered: 05-10-2008
Need Help Understanding This
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Mon, 08-11-2008 - 11:22am
Can anyone tell me why so many girls and women are showing their genitals spread open on the net? Porn used to be just topless. Now it's genitals spread open - and not always for money - many girls willingly upload their genitalia pictures on their own. Why do so many girls do this these days? Why don't they just show their breasts if they want to be publicly risqué. Why genitals spread open? Isn't that just waaaay too personal? Breasts I can possibly understand because of the curvy beauty of them, but spread open genitals? Breasts and butts are artistic but why do women show their butt holes and spread open genitals? Are they the new art?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 11:41am

Hi reality. Nice to meet you. The people here are gret, so stick around and jump in anytime. Hey, will you do us a favor? Please fill in your profile so we can know something about you. Thanks a million.


Why girls do this is beyond me. Maybe it makes them feel good to know that people are seeing them. {shrugs}

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 12:24pm

Welcome to the board, Reality.

I suppose those people get a rush thinking of others looking at them. I don't recall a time when porn was just showing breasts, but I can say I don't remember it being quite so wide open either.

On the flip side of that, I rather enjoy some of the changes I've seen in porn over the years. As a women, I felt slighted that all of the visual attention was focused on the women for the benefit of men. Being able to see more of the men, in various states and doing different things is something I enjoy. Of course, if I found their genitals to be unattractive in general, I wouldn't enjoy that. Each of us is different in what we view as beautiful.
















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Registered: 05-24-2008
Mon, 08-11-2008 - 9:12pm

"Isn't that just waaaay too personal? "


I tend to see it the same as you.

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Registered: 04-05-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 6:46am
There are 2 types of women: classy and dirty. Women who show the curviness of their bodies (1960's Playboy for example) are classy. Women who show their butt holes and spread open genitals are dirty. The rise of the internet has brought out all those dirty women of our society. These are not mainstream women. Even nudist colony women don't show their butt holes and spread open genitals to anyone. Why? Because everyone knows what comes out of those parts daily and the horrible odors that go along with it. Those dirty parts will only keep exploding across the internet because more and more dirty women and girls are showing those parts of their body. Women who show their curviness should be proud. Women who show their smelly parts should be ashamed of themselves.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 7:43am

Welcome to the board, potterfanmom.

While I can appreciate that you hold your own view of the female anatomy, I don't understand how you can relate your statement to what happens among nudist. Nudist are not nude for sexual reasons -- they also are not posing for entertainment. I'm sure that as they move about different parts of their anatomy are revealed.

Personally I think the human body is beautiful, and smelliness occurs when one is not kept clean. While I wouldn't expect anyone to go around showing their genitals in public, we are talking about porn here. Obscenity is required by definition.
















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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:17am

Women's "parts" aren't "dirty" and if the woman has normal hygiene.........they're not smelly.

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Registered: 04-05-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 12:19pm
At the end of a normal day, everyone kinows what those parts smell like. And when girls and women show them spread open, everyone can imagine the smell. Women are virtually parading their personal (natural) odors around in public by way of the internet. It's as if she is saying "here, smell this."
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Registered: 05-04-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 2:04pm

I really must be missing the point here, your statement is saying that women who show their vagina and anus are dirty?


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 2:13pm
"because of these women many of us have been able to recognize that the private parts come in all different sizes, colors and hues and have an appreciation of ours."


Very well said -- especially the appreciation of our own, Nikki. If we don't love ourselves, it's not very likely that anyone else will or can.















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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 2:14pm

I can only speak for myself but I do not have an offensive odor at the end of a normal day.

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