Watching me intently during sex? Help!

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Registered: 02-14-2008
Watching me intently during sex? Help!
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Tue, 08-12-2008 - 8:55am

I can't believe I'm posting this... I hope I'm not too forward, vulgar or anything. I'm a shy girl, but I need some input!

I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months, we just spent the weekend in Vegas and we had sex for the first time... during it, he would just gaze at me, watching intently, never letting the eye contact go and when he was ready to cum, I wasn't. So, he whispered in my ear, "Let's do this together," pulled out, fingered me to climax, and then I was more than ready... once again, NEVER LETTING THE EYE CONTACT GO!!

I've never had a guy that concerned about making me cum during sex.

I think I was having a hard time coming to orgasm because he just kept watching me, shyly smiling... part of me was falling deeper in love with him at that moment- the other part was feeling a little insecure. I mean seriously, sometimes, certain positions aren't the most flattering ;-)

Why is he doing this?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:08am

He's doing it because he likes looking at you.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:08am

He's doing it because he thinks it's hot.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:17am

Welcome to the board, mobil_girl.

I used to be rather shy about letting myself be "seen". I felt it was too revealing until recently. It can really be a turn on for both of you, and I suspect that he thinks it's hot (as the others have said). Try to go with it, you might find that you really like it!
















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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 4:06pm

> Why is he doing this?

Because he is very, very turned on by watching you during sex. He finds you very, very attractive, and is very, very much wants to watch you have an orgasm.

These are good things. You turn him on. Enjoy!

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 6:54pm
I know how you feel...eye contact all the way through can become uncomfortable.
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Registered: 12-26-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 9:57pm
I agree with sakura a good man should always want you cum, a selfish guy wouldnt care. As far as the eye contact, that just shows that he loves you my man always likes to look at me during sex. Dont feel insecure, enjoy it at least you got a man who cares. Good luck on your fairly new relationship!!!
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Registered: 11-07-2007
Fri, 08-22-2008 - 10:31pm

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