What is the fascination with this?!

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Registered: 08-12-2008
What is the fascination with this?!
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Tue, 08-12-2008 - 3:24pm
I just started having sex with my boyfriend of a year (we are both 22) and so far, it's been amazing. We were doing missionary because I needed to get comfortable with this whole thing. Now that I am, I've ventured into new territory. Now he is starting to get a little pushy. During sex, doesn't matter if I'm on top, bottom or from behind, he constantly asks me and sometimes tells me to play with my breasts. He tells me what to do to them and only touches them during foreplay or right before he comes. I'm confused and new to this, so what is the fascination with me playing with them- the WHOLE TIME?! He does gets off on it because he starts to moan and groan louder, but isn't that something that he can achieve by playing with them? Help?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 4:40pm
Welcome to the board, Kristen.



I don't think we can always pinpoint why something turns us on (or someone else on), but it's obvious that this turns your guy on.



Have you tried talking to him about it? Letting him know that you want to touch different parts of your body or his body? Does it do anything for you at all? I know that my DH loves to see me touch myself, and in certain positions, touching my breasts will definitely send him over the edge. I try to save it for those times that I'm ready for him to make that trip, LOL. It does turn me on to see his reaction, but anything that is too routine begins to loose its' appeal.



Since most women need to be in the present to enjoy their experience, you might just be able to tell him that he distracts you by asking you to do that all the time.















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Registered: 01-28-2004
Tue, 08-12-2008 - 5:14pm
i agree with everyone else. But I wanted to suggest something else. If he likes the thrill of watching you touch your breasts maybe he would like to try other things too. Venture out a little more and you might try some nipple clamps. That way you both get something out of them. And you get your hands back.
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