slight pain during sex

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2008
slight pain during sex
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Thu, 08-14-2008 - 10:01pm

Hey everyone,

my loveing boyfriend and i have been having sex for a good while now, but the only problem is when he's all the way inside me it starts hurting really bad. i think his head is bumping into my cervix. we tried having him not go in so deep but sometimes he still bumps into it by accident. i just wanted to know if there were any other suggestions to avoid this without loseing our pleasure. we use lube and we forplay alot.

Thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 08-14-2008 - 10:37pm

Welcome to the board, goddessloki.

Position can usually make a big difference when you're talking about your cervix being bumped. What happens is the repeated bumping causes it to feel (or be) bruised.

I would experiment with different positions and try to avoid the ones that allow for deeper penetration. You might want to check out this iVillage tool too:

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