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Getting busy tonight!
| Sun, 08-17-2008 - 5:59pm |
After more than a week, I finally get to spend the night with him. I was away on vacation and his brother is visiting, but we actually get a night to ourselves... and I want to make it amazinggggg.
We are going to try anal stimulation tonight, but does anyone else have ideas that I could use for tonight? Maybe catch him off guard... in a good way.
I'm going to be doing some research, too. I wish we had toys and other oddities, but we don't yet.. I'm going to run all of these by him tonight, of course. ;]]
Thank you! :D I can't wait!



I'm not sure if your talking about anal stimulation on you or him. I'm going to assume it's on you. You could try giving him anal stimulation during a BJ, a lot of guys like that.
Here's an article with some info on it:
How Do I Give my Guy Anal Pleasure?
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/questions/give-anal-pleasure
Let us know how the night turned out ;-)
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I didn't realize how much I missed him until I was with him last night. It was so nice being with him... we practiced my poor excuse of trying to speak Turkish. We did the alphabet, since I'm pretty good with the numbers. I showed him my book that is going to be used in my beginning Turkish course this fall and he smiled and chuckled to himself about it.. I figure he's going to have a fun time teasing me.
So, our night continued slowly, but I actually wanted it to... I wanted to spend time with him as a person rather than just hammering the bed continuously. :]]
Well (overall), I did try the anal stimulation and it was on him. He was uncomfortable a bit, but I slowly progressed forward.. I didn't force it on him. I waited for his approval and I just lingered on the outskirts, skimming and playing (I used lube! ;]). He seemed iffy about it, but as soon as he agreed and as I started to enter, he was questioning me: "How far are you in?" "Are you in?"
I suppose I have tiny fingers. ;p
I started a come hither motion and I was only in as far as my second knuckle on my first finger. He stopped me and was all "I don't know.. this is weird.." and I asked him if it was weird in a bad way or good way. He said it felt good, but I don't think he was sure. So, we started all over again- slow, easy movements- no rush to go into the anus- have him relax and not think much on it..
I entered again (after his approval) and went to work... he came VERY fast (and a mouth-filling)... and was in pain afterward! I don't know if that's something that happens often for a newbie, but I felt sooo bad. Seriously. He told me it felt like we had sex many, many times and it dried him completely. His abdomen area hurt.. and then, finally, his balls. I don't get why that happened to him.. he didn't blame me, of course, but I didn't like seeing him in aching pain. He said it was as if he gave birth, too.
We both weren't sure why he was in pain. We figured it was the idea that since he hadn't came in over a week or so was a reason... or maybe anal stimulation isn't something for him. I think we may try it one more time in a couple weeks after we've gotten use to our sexcapades again.
It wasn't long, though, that after I massaged his balls- we were back at it and he came perfectly fine. He felt better after 30 minutes or so... and we even did it this morning before we left to drop him off at lab.
I was just curious- should we try it again? I don't know. Was it my fault?
Edited 8/18/2008 10:38 am ET by marasu3
Edited 8/18/2008 10:43 am ET by marasu3