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Too big? Help!
| Sun, 08-24-2008 - 3:37pm |
Last night my new boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. We have great chemistry, but the man is HUGE. I had expected to be a little sore because it's been a while, but there were times last night that felt just like I was a virgin again, and not in a good way...
On top of everything we had some communication problems because english isn't his first language and, well, he was having some trouble concentrating to understand what I was saying. What can i do to make this easier on both of us?
Please help!

Maybe you should give him some English lessons!
Welcome to the board, shygal2007.
I would definitely recommend talking to him before having sex again. Let him know what was painful, and perhaps what you need to be more aroused. Take things more slowly, and use lube to help keep you from becoming irritated.
You might want to look at some different positions too. iVillage has a tool, and you can look at positions that work well if there is a larger penis involved. Here's the link:
Perfect Position Selector
http://choosers.ivillage.com/love/perfect_position/launcher.php
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