First date sex

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Registered: 08-02-2004
First date sex
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 10:24am
Have any of you had sex on the first date? I guess by sex I either mean oral sex or intercourse. My first wife and I had intercourse the first date we had. We ended up getting married and was so for 17 years until she passed away, so it's not always bad.

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Registered: 01-19-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:11am
The one time I recall having first date sex it turned out to be last date, sex or otherwise. What a disaster that was!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:31am
Sure, I've had first date sex, I don't recall it making a difference in the relationship either way.







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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:56am
In my case we did not have sex on the first date. Though it got REAL CLOSE. Instead I got a lot of feels and before I left I got to have a nude photo session with her. Then second date I stayed the night and it got hot and we did have sex the following morning! Married her soon after and that was 10 years ago.



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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 12:01pm
Yup, I did.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 1:18pm

I just ran across this blog by Josey on Sex on My Desk. I thought you might find it interesting, especially for the question posed here.

Night of Sex or Cup of Tea? (Seems Like a No-Brainer. Isn't.)
http://sexonmydesk.ivillage.com/love/archives/2008/08/night-of-sex-or-cup-of-tea-see.html







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Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 7:12pm
Yes, I have had sex (IC or oral) on the first date.
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Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 7:30pm

Not so far.......


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Registered: 04-18-2008
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 7:48pm

Well, I had sex with a guy

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Registered: 05-04-2008
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 9:03am
Sometimes I think having sex of the first date can be good thing.

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Registered: 01-19-2006
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 11:07am
The thing is, when I read the question, all that came to mind was that time it was so terrible. Plus many of the details, ick. It was that particular situation - I was in a new job in a new city, he was new at the same place, also from somewhere else, but, his reasons for picking up and leaving his old job and city had to do with breaking up with his long-time girlfriend. And he sure wasn't over her. The lead-up was great, he'd been flirting with me for ages, the date was good, the fore-play had me turned on, him too, and then it was in, thrust, and he came. Several times during the course of the night. He then avoided me strenuously at work for the rest of the week, finally coming up to me and saying he was sorry, he just wasn't over his XGF. Pretty awful, and we had to work together. Not, thank goodness, in the same area, but at the same place. When I saw him hitting on another woman about a month later, I just sat back and watched and waited. Sure enough, he stopped that act after about three weeks, and ignored her too.

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