Is Masturbation **REAL** Sex?

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Is Masturbation **REAL** Sex?
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 1:44pm

Is Masturbation **REAL** Sex?



  • I'm a guy -- for me it is!
  • I'm a female -- I think it is!
  • I'm a guy -- only if there's no alternative.
  • I'm a female -- only if there's no alternative.
  • I'm a guy -- I don't think so.
  • I'm a female -- no way!
  • Other, please explain ....


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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 2:11pm

I'm a female -- I don't think it is.


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Registered: 03-06-2007
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 2:24pm
I'm a female -- no way!












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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 2:28pm
Female here.. I say no. To me there's got to be a partner involved.

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 5:11pm
That is one sexy picture!

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 7:11pm
I have been masturbating for the last 7 years because I have been celibate and I do not consider that I have had real sex during these years.
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 8:00pm
An orgasm is an orgasm, and a fantasy enjoyed privately can be very, very enjoyable — so yes, sex with yourself is every bit as real as sex with a partner.


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Registered: 12-07-2006
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 9:07pm

Well it's simple to answer that.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 08-26-2008 - 9:20pm
I'm a female and I voted *no way*.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 12:04pm

What do you mean "real sex"? Solo masturbation certainly provides an orgasm, and is certainly sex in that sense. On the other hand, it isn't nearly as satisfying as sex with a partner, even if that sex consists of getting or giving a handjob. If my wife was masturbating, I wouldin't think of that as having sex without me, but if someone else was masturbating her I would. If someone had only masturbated, I would certainly consider them a celibate virgin.


So - what do you mean by real sex?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 1:16pm
I actually posted this after reading an article, and wanted to get an idea of what others thought. I'm pretty sure in the sense of this question, masturbation is being defined as the solo act.

Here's the paragraph:


"Masturbation isn't "real sex"; it's only for people who can't find a partner.

Masturbation is real sex. When you masturbate you can get really aroused, which can result in very real orgasms. In North America, we put values on different sexual behaviors, but this has no basis in science. From a health perspective, masturbation is as “real” a sexual behavior as intercourse, oral sex, or kissing. And research shows that people in relationships masturbate, which contradicts the myth that masturbation is only for loners."


This is the source of the article:


Myths and Masturbation

http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/tp/masturbationmyt.htm







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