BF Obsessed With Clitoral Size

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BF Obsessed With Clitoral Size
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Sat, 08-30-2008 - 2:43pm
My boyfriend treats my clitoris like a little penis. He always pulls back my foreskin and licks the head. He also strokes it back and forth with his thumb and index finger like he's jerking it off. I love the sensations he gives me when he does these things. Recently I noticed on our computer that he went to the Denise Masino website. She is a woman with one of the largest clitorises in the world. I also have evidence that he went to xhamster and youporn and typed in "large clitoris". Does he have a clitoris obsession? Is this normal?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 3:17pm

Your clitoris IS a little penis!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 3:31pm

I don't know if it means that he has an "obsession", but it does seem like he has an attraction. We all have different shapes and sizes, and as Sakura said, your clitoris is like a little penis.

You might want to check out the website www.the-clitoris.com. Besides having a lot of information there about the female anatomy, there are actually pictures of differences in female genitalia. Here's a quote from the section "Size of clitoris and labia".

"It may shock many to learn that some normal and healthy genetic females have a penis, or at least a clitoris that looks very similar to a penis. Actually, all females have a penis, we just prefer to call their penis a clitoris. While some object to this analogy, it is accurate from a sexual and biological perspective. A penis and clitoris are made up of the same tissues and function the same, because they develop from the same fetal structure."







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Registered: 05-10-2008
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 5:55pm
He may be gay. You should talk to him about it. If he likes your little penis, he might really want a big one and really be yearning for guys. Embarrassment or shame may be compelling him to stay with females. Sit down with him. There's nothing wrong with him stroking your penis and giving you head if it is just you, but if he's going to xhamster and youporn putting in large clitoris in the search, then there could be gay issues going on.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 8:19pm

I would think if he was gay he'd be looking at men's penises on line, not large clits on women.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 10:14pm

Hi potterfanmom!


I think it is wonderful that your BF takes delight in your body, desires to give you pleasure. You have admitted that you love the sensations he gives you ... so enjoy them.


Men, like women, are interested in many things of a sexual nature. When one is sexual in nature, one is inquisitive of all things sexual. I wouldn't worry about his curiosity unless he was getting gratification only from looking at the materials you mention.


Clearly he is enjoying you ... and you him.


Enjoy!


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 10:43pm

I have to agree with Tish. I don't see how looking at large clitorises would make anyone think he is gay. There's certainly enough penises to look at if that were the case.

The clitoris is an amazing part of the female anatomy. It's capable of becoming erect, it brings a great deal of pleasure, and something that members of both sexes can find quite interesting. As a woman, I find my own clitoris to be something to marvel -- and I have no interest in being with other women, nor do I expect it to replace the fascination I have with the male penis.







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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 08-30-2008 - 11:50pm
He may be GAY?
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 12:05am

As others have pointed out if he was gay he would be looking at guys, but another point worth mentioning is that the chances of him being aware that the clitoris is a tiny penis (others

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 1:23am
She's a bodybuilder and her
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Registered: 03-16-2007
Sun, 08-31-2008 - 3:02pm
Actually, a penis is a large clitoris, not the other way around. So guys have huge clitorises, only they don't realise it. So, they are all quite big. It's all a matter of perspective, I think.

Oh my, how different things will be once that knowledge becomes generalised.

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