Does size really matter???
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Does size really matter???
| Mon, 09-01-2008 - 2:20am |
I mean there is always a debate on this, but I wonder when it comes to sex what is really the important between the couple, the size or the performance? I mean does a big.... really performs well or a small one can do the same?
Are guys with big ones can perform bad or guys with small ones perform well?
What is really important in a relationship size or performance?
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Hello, Maru, and welcome to the board.
I'm not really sure from your post if you were asking a question or sort of thinking out loud. There have been size debates here, often then can get ugly. If you want to get an idea of what people think in relation to size mattering, you could do a search on the board for past discussions.
Just under the "Let's Talk About Sex" heading for the board, there is a search space "find messages about". You can enter your search terms there and find many conversations.
My personal opinion is that size does not make a good lover. A good lover is someone who invests him/herself into the event. That includes the enjoyment of all involved and goes way beyond just being a body with a part during the event.
I'm not sure if you are a male or female, but do you have past lovers? If so, what has made the difference for you as far as if size mattered?Click a Blinkie!
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Edited 9/1/2008 9:14 am ET by cl-misty_mae
A man is whatever size he is.
"... she'll be joyful with his tiny thing."
The way you said that got a chuckle out of me. :)
Btw, nice avatar.
LOL!
Mrs P
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I think that when it comes to sex that the two people involved fit well together and that means personality, sexual tastes and preferences, physically feel good together and enjoy each other and really want to please each other.
Okay, I just can't help but post to this one.
I have never been with someone who was 'well endowed' and honestly, I don't think I'd know what I'd do if I ever were to be with someone who was in the future.
I have only been with two men. My 'first' and then the one I married. Neither one 'had a lot to offer'. The first was good (or so I thought). What did I know? I was 22 and this was all I knew.
My now dh, on the other hand, definitely showed me how incredible things could be. I always joke about his 'big 3 inch'. (So I haven't taken a ruler to measure it. I measured it with my hand and then used a ruler later! LOL!)
All I do know is, it doesn't matter if he's well endowed or not. If he knows how to use it and how to satisfy you then that's all that does matter. I'm sure if I wanted to I could've had some men who were bigger but to be honest, I really like what I've got in him. ;)
Like the saying goes..."It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean."
Lyn
This is person isn't talking about imagining........ infact that's a whole
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