For the Guys .... Do you always Ejacu...

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Registered: 03-31-2007
For the Guys .... Do you always Ejacu...
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Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:10am

For the Guys .... Do you always Ejaculate during PARTNERED sex?



  • 100% Always
  • 90% or more of the time
  • At least 75% of the time
  • I'm shooting somewhere over 50%.
  • Maybe right around half of the time.
  • We have a lot of sex, I try to save it up, so less than 1/2 of the time I do!
  • Not very often! (25-40% of the time)
  • Very rarely .... less than 25% of the time
  • Never (tell us if that's okay with you)
  • Other .... please explain


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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:30am
Not each and every time, but definitely in the 90%+ range.


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:47am

I put my DH in the 75% of the time.

Often, he's really focused on it being all about me. Sometimes he just wants to make sure there is a later, LOL.







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Registered: 10-30-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 11:57am

Misty,


My ex was like this, but I hated it, I love that they want to please us but I want them to ejaculate, sigh.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 12:10pm

I voted 90% of the time for Dh.

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Registered: 02-12-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 12:44pm
Partnered sex for us is a "date" once a week or occasionally twice a week.

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Registered: 02-05-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 12:49pm
In my younger days I could have voted 100% but over the last 4-5 years or so, I have failed to bast off on a few occasions.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-06-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 1:05pm

My girlfriend yells at me all the time to cum..... i am just making sure i make her feel great. I guess i should cum more for her. Poor me i guess---LOL!


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Registered: 08-29-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 8:20pm
Soemtiems it isn't much if I have masturbated recently-but I do all the time.
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Registered: 05-24-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:31pm
This is very interesting for me to see.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 10:42pm
"I dont feel right about the sexual experience unless both of us are happy with the ending."


That's an interesting point to bring up. Just like women, men don't always need to get off to have a good experience. A lot of things, even the frequency of sex, can have an impact on whether or not a guy ejaculates. I know in the case of my DH, he's able to maintain an erection for longer now than he's ever been able to. He's in awe with himself for that, and very much enjoys his sexual experiences .... he just doesn't always feel the need to make sure he finishes with ejaculation.

When this first started happening with him, I was a bit worried, although I couldn't imagine he wasn't enjoying the sex. At that time, we were typically having sex 2 - 3 times a day and at least one of those encounters would go on for an average of 2 hours. He's assured me many times that I "never need to worry about him", and from the actions that occur, I can't help but believe him. At 55, he has amazing stamina ... but eventually, his body just says it's done.




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