welcome to the board....I have to ask if you really want to become a FWB? Just because the sex life is there do want it to stay? He might be trying to trap you as well. So be careful. Its great you get along and all but be cautious.
Hi fairydust. It's nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. The people here are great. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks a million.
It's difficult being on a board and trying to really understand what someone is saying. I think everyone is really trying to be helpful and just throwing things out there. Anyway, I would think most guys would rather shoot their load inside a woman. Maybe you should just ask him point blank why, as he's the only one that can really answer that question.
While reading your post I couldn't help but think to myself...I'd want him in a condom...especially if I hadn't known where he's been since we parted.
That's just me.
As to your question....I'd just ask him. You know I would want to know what's on a man's mind if I were intimate with him. I'd want to know why...if he asked for something repeatedly. I can't imagine being close enough to have sex and not ask whatever was on my mind...or his.
Good luck with all of this...I hope it plays out the way you want it to.
Welcome to the board, Fairydust.
Not sure what his motive is, but I can say for most, it's the #1 destination.
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Because that's what men prefer to do, rather than "pull out" which must
Edited 9/10/2008 9:42 am ET by missybee837
I said planning to use because I have not been sexually active in a long time.
Welcome Fairydust,
FWB - Friends with Benefits
He is your ex so I can see why we all thought this.
Coming in you could be "ownership"
Hi fairydust. It's nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. The people here are great. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks a million.
It's difficult being on a board and trying to really understand what someone is saying. I think everyone is really trying to be helpful and just throwing things out there. Anyway, I would think most guys would rather shoot their load inside a woman. Maybe you should just ask him point blank why, as he's the only one that can really answer that question.
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Hi Fairy...it's nice to meet you.
While reading your post I couldn't help but think to myself...I'd want him in a condom...especially if I hadn't known where he's been since we parted.
That's just me.
As to your question....I'd just ask him. You know I would want to know what's on a man's mind if I were intimate with him. I'd want to know why...if he asked for something repeatedly. I can't imagine being close enough to have sex and not ask whatever was on my mind...or his.
Good luck with all of this...I hope it plays out the way you want it to.
Mrs P