18 years old sex problems
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18 years old sex problems
| Fri, 09-12-2008 - 2:23pm |
im 18 and when i get a girl in bed i just get nervous as hell for some reason and i cant get it up. i dont know if its that im to scared to tell the girl to do something or what. the last girl that i tried to have sex with wasnt active at all which made me really nervouse so we never had sex. and i never talked to her about it. and do girls like being fingered because thats what i like doing b4 sex including other things but if someone could help me out that would be great.

Welcome to the board.
What sorts of activities are you trying prior to getting into bed? It's not likely that things will work out well if the two of you are not comfortable with each other, and the passion should begin long before you end up in bed together.
Fingering is definitely a part of foreplay. It should help to arouse both of you -- as she gets wet and aroused herself, it would typically encourage an erection on your part. Since she's not reacting, it's difficult for your mind and body to be in the moment.
Perhaps take more time to let a relationship develop and see if that's helpful.
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