Too much sex?

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Too much sex?
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Mon, 09-15-2008 - 3:03am
My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship. We don't get to spend much time together though, so when we do we can't keep our hands off each other. I still live at home and he lives with his brother's family, so I guess the fact that we can't just have sex whenever we want makes us want it more. It seems like everytime we have a moment alone together, we end up having sex. I feel like I can't get enough of him, and he's always into it too, but sometimes I feel bad because of how tired it makes him. He works about 55 hours a week and doesn't get much sleep, so he's always tired to begin with and after we've finished it's about 100 times worse. Could this be too much of a good thing? Should I try to control myself more?
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Registered: 09-30-2006
In reply to: goddesslala
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 5:34am

Well, I wouldn't necessarily say it is too much as long as he is OK with it.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: goddesslala
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 7:19am

Welcome to the board, Goddesslala.

I think if he's into it, you should let him worry about getting the right amount of sleep for himself. He's not pushing you away, you aren't demanding it ... so he's obviously up for it ;-)





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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: goddesslala
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 8:12am

Hi it's nice to meet you. Is he complaining about it? If not, then don't worry. Or you can try asking him if he wants sex or sleep.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: goddesslala
Mon, 09-15-2008 - 12:11pm
This sounds like DW and I were in the beginning. I always found the energy to have sex with her do my job and commute the 4.5 hours to where she was. I can tell you this I always had the best sleep after we had sex. So even though I only got a couple of hours of sleep the sleep I got was very good. Unless he starts complaining and doing stupid things from fatigue don't sweat it.



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Registered: 09-10-2008
In reply to: goddesslala
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 1:15am
If you think it is too much...you can get less...let him have a good rest..