This is a great place to ask! Tell us a bit about what is "hum-drum" for you and maybe we can offer some suggestions.
Right off the bat, to make a sizzle I just reflect back on what has been "usual" for us then I step out and try something new. It maybe as simple as having sex in a different room or wearing something different or reading erotica together or really wild and visiting an adult toy store and buying something fun to introduce into the bedroom.
Spicing things up really depends on both individuals involved and where your sexual relationship is right now. Anything from doing a striptease, dirty talk, watching porn, incorporate new sex acts, incorporating sex toys, playing sex games, having sex in different places, etc. can spice it up.
If you want to give us a little more detail, or share some of the things you have tried, we'll try to point you in the direction. iVillage has a huge selection of articles too. Here's a variety of ideas for you:
Mutual masturbation-not necessarily to orgasm. I love to watch a realistic dildo go in and out of her vagina. She loves for me to cum on her boobs.
Watch sex DVD'S together and fantasize. We especially like to watch group sex. DW gets so hot watching men masturbate and she loves seeing multiple penises.
Dirty talk.
Prostate massage using a vibrating anal toy while she gives me a BJ.
Making her cum during oral sex and then sharing juices with deep kisses.
Hmmm, Some of the things we have done to keep it hot and spicy. We make our own pornos We take pics of each other and while we are having sex We have sex outside. We try to have sex in unusual places. Sex in the park, covers unusual and outside. Toys in the bedroom. Sex at work.... Role playing. and one I probably can't remember at the moment.
Halloween is such a great time to look for role playing outfits, or even stripper type outfits. Just go to a costume shop and use your imagination ;-)
I read an article this morning that reminded me of one of the things DH and I had talked about doing ... meet at a bar and pretend you don't know each other, (of course, this couldn't be a place you frequent) and pick each other up! I think it would be extra fun to do that in Halloween costumes! Maybe look for a place that is having a contest or something.
You had me cracking up on this one! My kids have wanted a trampoline forever and dh always said NO> I am sure if I read him your posts one would be showing up in our back yard, assembled and ready to go. Only problem is my kids are old enough to care a little less about using it the traditional way and would proabably figure out the new improved adult version of Trampolining!!
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Hi Nice-n-wet!
This is a great place to ask! Tell us a bit about what is "hum-drum" for you and maybe we can offer some suggestions.
Right off the bat, to make a sizzle I just reflect back on what has been "usual" for us then I step out and try something new. It maybe as simple as having sex in a different room or wearing something different or reading erotica together or really wild and visiting an adult toy store and buying something fun to introduce into the bedroom.
Welcome to the board, nice-n-wet.
Spicing things up really depends on both individuals involved and where your sexual relationship is right now. Anything from doing a striptease, dirty talk, watching porn, incorporate new sex acts, incorporating sex toys, playing sex games, having sex in different places, etc. can spice it up.
If you want to give us a little more detail, or share some of the things you have tried, we'll try to point you in the direction. iVillage has a huge selection of articles too. Here's a variety of ideas for you:
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3 Surefire Ways to Please a Man in Bed
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10 Things Good Girls Can Learn from Porn Stars
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Pull Off a Striptease Like a Pro: 11 Tips
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Click a Blinkie!
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Here are some spicy things that we do.
Mutual masturbation-not necessarily to orgasm. I love to watch a realistic dildo go in and out of her vagina. She loves for me to cum on her boobs.
Watch sex DVD'S together and fantasize. We especially like to watch group sex. DW gets so hot watching men masturbate and she loves seeing multiple penises.
Dirty talk.
Prostate massage using a vibrating anal toy while she gives me a BJ.
Making her cum during oral sex and then sharing juices with deep kisses.
Cumming in her mouth.
Creampies.
Role reversal using a strap on.
Watching her trim her pubic hair.
Hmmm,
Some of the things we have done to keep it hot and spicy.
We make our own pornos
We take pics of each other and while we are having sex
We have sex outside.
We try to have sex in unusual places.
Sex in the park, covers unusual and outside.
Toys in the bedroom.
Sex at work....
Role playing.
and one I probably can't remember at the moment.
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We did it last month outside on the trampoline and we tried not to spill our champagne!
Halloween is such a great time to look for role playing outfits, or even stripper type outfits. Just go to a costume shop and use your imagination ;-)
I read an article this morning that reminded me of one of the things DH and I had talked about doing ... meet at a bar and pretend you don't know each other, (of course, this couldn't be a place you frequent) and pick each other up! I think it would be extra fun to do that in Halloween costumes! Maybe look for a place that is having a contest or something.
Click a Blinkie!
Happy at Home ~ Have Hotter Sex/Ask Laura Corn
Funone,
You had me cracking up on this one! My kids have wanted a trampoline forever and dh always said NO> I am sure if I read him your posts one would be showing up in our back yard, assembled and ready to go. Only problem is my kids are old enough to care a little less about using it the traditional way and would proabably figure out the new improved adult version of Trampolining!!
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