He'll Break Up With You If ......

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Registered: 03-31-2007
He'll Break Up With You If ......
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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 8:43pm
The guys over at Askmen.com have put together a list of 10 Dating Deal Breakers: Reasons He Might Break Up with You. Here's the topics:

  • You don't back him up publicly

  • You flirt with other guys

  • You neglect him publicly

  • You lie

  • You criticize him

  • You disappear without telling him

  • You abuse him

  • You scold him publicly

  • You have a substance abuse problem

  • You cheat



Check out the article to see what they have to say about each event. BTW, ladies, I think these sound like pretty good reasons to dump a guy too!





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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 8:56pm
It's been a loooooooong time since I was in the dating pool... but yeah, those would be big no-no's for me.


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Registered: 09-20-2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 1:28am
Well, my ex did at least 6 of those. I don't know for certain if he ever cheated on me, but I don't doubt that he did. So, yeah, those are good reasons to dump someone.
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Registered: 06-09-2004
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:12am

Thanks Misty-


I was on the askmen.com site for a while after you posted the link. Some of the Q&A's are funny. It is a good source.


seachells

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:41am
I'm so glad you're in a better relationship now, Sister ~ you deserve that happiness!




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 6:44am
LOL, now, of course, you know I'm going to have to visit there .... it's been a while since I have.




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Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 7:56am

Now, tell me again why I would want to treat someone like this if I cared about them?!?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 8:12am

LOL, funny you mention threadjacking. Recently I was chatting with a friend, went off in a different direction with our conversation, and found myself saying, "Whoops, sorry I just threadjacked that entire thing". She just looked at me kind of blank, hahahaha. At any rate, around here, we consider it just another twist in the conversation ;-)

So, what were the survey results?

This one actually interests me a lot, I was thinking about starting a poll on it here!





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Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 8:49am

Here you go, Misty...all the links take you different places...I spent a good bit of time reading, lol!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:30am
Thanks for the article! The links are great ... I think I'll have my DH start reading that column on a regular basis, LOL.




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Registered: 07-07-2008
Thu, 09-25-2008 - 9:37am
It's free and I feel like I'm listening in at the "Men's Club"!

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