Is he really coming back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2004
Is he really coming back?
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Fri, 04-01-2005 - 7:49pm
I was with the father of my child the past 3 years. We had a good relationship up until a year ago. We fought a lot because he never helped out much and stayed up all night, therefore he didnt have much time for his family. He finally moved out last May. I did not want him to go. He said he needed to find himself and if he ever came back it would be f orever. Well once he left we continued to have a relationship up until about three months ago. He told me he loved me but did not love me the way i wanted him too. So we stopped fooling around because I was getting hurt. Since then he has been real distant and does not come around much. His sister said he would come back to me, but he hasnt yet. I am not sure how to handle this because I do not know what to think. Will he really come back to me. He needed space...I gave it to him. Anyone have any thoughts on this. Can anyone give me some thoughts on how I should deal with this??? Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2004
Sat, 04-02-2005 - 8:05pm
If I were you, I'd just try to move on, becasue there's no point having big expectations about the future, because then...if things don't go well, you'll just end up being even more hurt.