What should I do???
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| Sat, 04-02-2005 - 12:27am |
Hi! Can anyone please give me their advice? Please!
This is a dilemma that has been on my mind for the past few months. I met a really sweet guy in December. We did not start going out until the beginning of March because we live in two completely different cities. We have only gone out together twice, but spent the whole day together. Other than this we email almost daily and talk on the phone. I won't see him for another 2 weeks where we plan to meet for his birthday.
The first problem is that I have never told him how I feel about him. Which I am reluctant to do because if he does not feel the same way, things might become awkward. But the second and the biggest problem is that he is relocating to another country (a different continent) in 4-5 months.
My brain is telling me to just forget about telling him how I feel and enjoy his friendship until he leaves, but my heart is saying to me that I have never met anyone I have so much in common with. I don't want to regret not seeing where this could lead.
He says he will miss me when he relocates and he is looking forward to me visiting when he moves.
I was thinking of calling him and telling him how I feel before I see him again. What would you suggest that I do??

Hi,
Thanks to all of you who gave me advice. I told him, but he wants to start over new with a clean state in the country he is moving to. He does have feelings for me as well, but most of his relationships in the past, have been LDRs and he does not want this again.
I just feel like a zombie right now...I just want to cry!