need some advice

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Registered: 04-02-2005
need some advice
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Sat, 04-02-2005 - 3:03pm
hi everyone, although i love my guy i dont know what to do about the situation that im in. for the past 6 monthes of being together he hasnt asked me to his house once. im in high school and when i see his mom working in the lunch room she shoots me dirty looks and turns her head the other way. i never did anything to her or my boyfriend for her to act like this. he doesnt know about the way she acts towards me unless she says things to him when hes home but i just dont know what to do. i know that im young and i can find another guy but i dont want to do that because i care so much about him. please help me find a way to talk to him or something im very desprate and upset. thanks so much any advice is usefull!!!
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Sat, 04-02-2005 - 3:12pm

Maybe she just does not want her son to have a relationship. Moms can be very protective/territorial with their children. If you are his first girlfriend, she might just be worried about it or maybe even jealous of the time he spends with you. I would ignore her looks. When you see her, just smile and don't let her get you down. I am 35 and moms always watch out for their sons no matter how old the son is. :o)
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Registered: 04-02-2005
Sat, 04-02-2005 - 3:17pm
thanks for your reply i think your right because he is her first born. i'll see how it goes for a while i just really hope she gets over it. thanks