wait it out or let it go ?
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wait it out or let it go ?
| Tue, 04-05-2005 - 4:59am |
i had an argument with my guy and he hasnt been online since ( for 4 days ) when we said bye he told me " ill talk to you tomorrow" so im a little curious as to where he went. i talked to his brother and he said he d tell him to send me a note when he saw him sun. morning and he never did. my guy friends say to be patient and let him explain himself but i say 4 days of waiting is enough and i have the write to the " this is showing a total lack of respect for me " email i sent. it wasnt nasty but it did let him know i was hurt that he was avoding me. should i wait or move on???
ps - i cant call him, no phones. long story.

Can you call his folks, or friends? Just to make sure he's alive and well? Also, I don't like this "silent treatment" either. It's childish. ESPECIALLY when you gusy are long distacne. I mean, some time off is good, but jeez, this is bad. 6 days, huh? I'd start calling family to make sure he's alive. That or I'd start seeing how I can catch a flight there.
Hugs and good luck. I cna only wonder how frustrating all that is.
At this point, call some of his friends or family that may have frequent contact with him.
Steffy
CO-cl of Is It Meant to Be?