Insecurity blah!!!!
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Insecurity blah!!!!
| Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:56am |
I am having a hard time dealing with this issue. In past relationships I have had no issues with jealousy, or insecurity... Now I am in a new relationship and I find myself feeling that way on occasion, I absolutely hate it...and it is all me, he is a great guy, who does nothing to cause me to feel this way, yet I do. has anybody gone through this? any tips on how to work through it?

I guess then, I'd wonder why all of a sudden you're insecure in this r'ship. Is it his actions? What changed about you that you're now insecure? What exactly are you insecure about? What actions of his makes you feel insecure?
I'm not saying it's all you, but I'm curious...why is this different?
So basically then, this is the first time, in your life, in a relationship that you FEAR he will LEAVE YOU. because you KNOW you'll be crushed, versus, before, where if they left, oh well, next.
I say that, only cuz I feel jealous, insecure when I am fearful of being left by the man I truly love/care about. And yet as we know, we shouldnt' feel that way either.
I think everyone has
My first instinct is that you like this guy way more than you have liked others in the past??
Steffy
CO-cl of Is It Meant to Be?