RE: ex issues
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RE: ex issues
| Fri, 04-08-2005 - 12:11am |
I posted sometime last week I think about having issues with wanting to get back together with my "ex" boyfriend. Well, we have spent time together the last 2 days, he was helping me move some stuff out of my grandparents house yesterday and he had to leave, but later on we talked and we ended up spending the night together. We had a lot of fun. Then today, he was helping me move stuff again, but he is sick, and very tired from last night, so he went home to go to bed. We are having lunch tomorrow (it is my birthday but he has to go home to his parents house because his dad called him the other day and needs him to help him out with some stuff and is going to miss the "birthday dinner with the friends" so we are going to lunch--it is also why we hung out last night too)
I am not sure where I am going with all of this information. I guess I am looking for opinions. I still care about him so much and want to get back together, but I am not sure how to go about it, should I have lunch with him, and wait until he gets back to talk to him, or should I just ride it out and let things happen and not push anything....he has said in the past that things will fix themselves and to just let it happen, but I am not that patient of a person. Should I make myself be more patient in this situation??? It just gets harder to be apart when I don't know what we are waiting for. I don't want to be with anyone else and he doesnt WANT me to be with anyone else and vice versa. I have never had this kind of relationship before. We try to be friends, but when we are together it is so obviously more, but yet we aren't together but neither of us wants the other person to be with someone else......
venting again.... sorry.... I guess it is easier for me to vent this here, then to vent it to him, becuase then I don't sound whiny to him.
I am not sure where I am going with all of this information. I guess I am looking for opinions. I still care about him so much and want to get back together, but I am not sure how to go about it, should I have lunch with him, and wait until he gets back to talk to him, or should I just ride it out and let things happen and not push anything....he has said in the past that things will fix themselves and to just let it happen, but I am not that patient of a person. Should I make myself be more patient in this situation??? It just gets harder to be apart when I don't know what we are waiting for. I don't want to be with anyone else and he doesnt WANT me to be with anyone else and vice versa. I have never had this kind of relationship before. We try to be friends, but when we are together it is so obviously more, but yet we aren't together but neither of us wants the other person to be with someone else......
venting again.... sorry.... I guess it is easier for me to vent this here, then to vent it to him, becuase then I don't sound whiny to him.

I think that you should just be patient and take things slow. I also think you should just take it day by day. I hope this works out for you.
~michelle
I think that for a little while, being patient and just letting things happen is the best option.
Steffy
CO-cl of Is It Meant to Be?