What does all this cuddling mean?
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What does all this cuddling mean?
| Sun, 04-10-2005 - 5:06pm |
Hi:
I recently just met a cute guy who seems to really be into me. We cuddled (he stroked my hair, held me close, rubbed my back & face, & was just very physical with me (no kissing, though). He teased me a lot, including tickling & little inside jokes, etc. Then he walked me home & tenderly squeezed my shoulder with a soft look in his eyes when he left me.
I really like this guy, but I'm unsure of what's happening on his end. One friend told me to "let things take shape" & allow things to happen naturally. I'm pretty sure he's into me, but how can I tell (other than asking him, of course)?
The only problem is that a few months ago, a girl really screwed him over & and he's a little cautious with regard to girls. But he seemed really open & relaxed with me & didn't do any of those cuddly things with the other girls who were present. I had a feeling that if we'd been alone, more would've happened.
So should I hope for great things?
I'd appreciate your advice.
~Lady
I recently just met a cute guy who seems to really be into me. We cuddled (he stroked my hair, held me close, rubbed my back & face, & was just very physical with me (no kissing, though). He teased me a lot, including tickling & little inside jokes, etc. Then he walked me home & tenderly squeezed my shoulder with a soft look in his eyes when he left me.
I really like this guy, but I'm unsure of what's happening on his end. One friend told me to "let things take shape" & allow things to happen naturally. I'm pretty sure he's into me, but how can I tell (other than asking him, of course)?
The only problem is that a few months ago, a girl really screwed him over & and he's a little cautious with regard to girls. But he seemed really open & relaxed with me & didn't do any of those cuddly things with the other girls who were present. I had a feeling that if we'd been alone, more would've happened.
So should I hope for great things?
I'd appreciate your advice.
~Lady

Haha enjoy the cuddling :)
http://www.superlaugh.com/1/babylove.htm
Once you find someone and get married, it slows down. However you begin working on a different part of the relationship as a whole.
Another synopsis:
He could just be horny. pardon my bluntness.
Guys are physical. If he did get hurt, then he will get over it fairly quickly. Especially if you support him and just be open with him. Won't take long at all for him to recover. So don't worry about that at all.
Well..in my opinion you should always HOPE for great things.
Steffy
CO-cl of Is It Meant to Be?