One more chance?

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Registered: 02-19-2005
One more chance?
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Sun, 04-10-2005 - 11:45pm
So I've known this guy for two months now. And I still haven't figured him out. The whole time we've known each other I've been frustrated with the fact that he doesn't really call me much. At first I thought that he wasn't interested. But after a while when he would still respond to me and come see me, I just figured he was the type of guy that didn't do the whole phone thing. So for the past 2 wks I haven't heard much from him. I talked to him last week and he seemed really short with me. And I told him to come see me sometime later that week. And a week went by and no word. As much as I like him, I don't think the feeling is mutual. Or if it is, he has a weird way of showing it. I'm not used to guys not chasing me. So I'm really unsure of how to handle this situation. Should I try calling him one more time to see what's up, or should I just let it go? I just don't want to seem desperate. I have other options, he's just the option I want.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 04-11-2005 - 8:46am
If he wanted to be with you, he would be. Don't waste anymore time.
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Registered: 02-14-2005
Mon, 04-11-2005 - 5:29pm
I have been in this guy's shoes . I am a woman and have done that to a guy. I don't know if it's different with genders. But in my case, I wasn't into him and was just stringing him along.
Hope that helps and hope you don't think i'm bad bad person who deserves to eat worms in a hole. Cuz it all worked out and i was true with him eventually.
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Registered: 04-11-2005
Mon, 04-11-2005 - 5:31pm
I am in the exact same situation. Ugh. I just posted a thread of my own about this. It is horrible. I don't understand why they can't just be up front. I suppose they're afraid of hurting feelings, but why don't they realize that we will be MORE hurt after the slow bleed-out rather than a quick cut?


Edited 4/11/2005 5:33 pm ET ET by beingcorrie